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    how has your relationship been affected

    my husband is really great about accepting how things are, i on the other hand have had a really hard time, and it took a long time to find peace. now weve settled into our lives contently together.

    how have you an you SO dealt with this and found a way to go on?
    "Beyond destruction lies greatness


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    I know this is my reality for now this is the only way I can deal with life these days.
    This is one day at a time and conditions are treacherous in my little ocean and evolving always.
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    hi luv, and yes it is a process. i have good days. mostly, but once in a great while, and it might even be a movie, i get upset.

    i would love to go back to school but i must pay off one loan before i get another, so i clean my house, and i crochet alot. i mean alot. and i do what makes me happy. and we do what makes us happy
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    I'm confused, and I'm not trying to be a jerk, but is this part of the Living Childfree board? I'm a bit distressed to come here and see someone posting with a cutesy ticker showing that her baby is as big as a lime right now. OMG. I just heard about this horrific fruit comparison thing last week and to see it of all places on a living childfree (not by choice) board is pretty devastating. I understand if if someone has been childless for a long time and has given up on cycling and thinks she may never have success that she might visit here and even post here to work through what may be inevitable, but apparently if you're still cycling and especially if you're pg, you still have a chance. You apparently still have hope. Maybe post elsewhere? Otherwise, where do the childless fit in? If childless women who really have little to no hope cannot be safe from pg updates, tickers and announcements on a childfree board there is nowhere to go. Please have some compassion.


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    I'm going to guess the lime wasn't a lime when she posted that.


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    Even it was a pea at the time, it certainly doesn't belong on a childless board.


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    Thank you so much for removing the pregnancy ticker!


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