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    Taking a FT break (x-post)

    Hi all,

    Well I just came from my grief counseling appt. and she wants me to stop coming here for awhile. I am not sure that this is going to help with anything (may actually make things worse in my book) but I am going to do what she asks. I don't know how long as she did not state that. It just boils down to she thinks I spend to much time focused on my IF and the loss of the babies. She believes if I step away from here that it may help me put Donald at the back of my mind instead of grieving him constantly. If you need me or whatever my email is armywfe06@yahoo.com or leave me a PM and I will check that. Good luck to everyone while I am gone. I wish the best to everyone.

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    Oh hon, like NL said, do what makes YOU feel better. I am sorry but who is anybody to tell you how to deal with your IF and loss of babies? I know, I am not making this easier but it does piss me off when others tell YOU when YOU need to be over something....Dr. or not.


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    Pissed me off too. It should always be ok to grieve and focus on your loss.

    It's ok to think of Donald. He shouldn't be pushed to the back of your mind.

    I respect your desire to try to do what the counselor asks, and I hope it is helpful to you.

    We're here when you get back.

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    I responded on another of your posts, so you already know how I feel about that counselor, but we'll miss you.
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