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    *~*~*BC-friarfly (jen)*~*~*

    jen...just wondering how you're doing and how you're holding up? please know we're here if you need us!
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    Thank you so much for asking about me!

    I am doing ok with all things considered. Right now, I am concentrating on getting a job, getting a place to live, and our divorce. I am looking forward to all of this being over. It's time to look toward a healthy future and not this torturous situation. My "husband" (and I use that term loosely) and I are both residing in the same house. It is incredibly difficult to live this way. I never know what to expect- some days he is friendly while other days he makes biting comments and threats. I have been lying low on Fertile Thoughts because he is reading all of my posts and trying to use them against me. He picks them apart and then threatens me with them. I feel that things are going to get a lot worse before they get better. I pray this isn't the case, but unfortunately, this is the kind of person my husband is - he's ruthless.
    Please keep me and my daughter in your prayers.
    I appreciate your support and friendship during this terrible time

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    Hon that is NOT right in so many ways. Change your user name, and PM me for a list of gals who can REALLY be of service about now - two especially I can think of. I don't want to list them here or he'll go stalking their posts.

    Stay strong - you are worth so much more.
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    i agree with NL.....have dave change your name and leave any personal info out of your username, sig, posts. make SURE you request he change the name of your blog as well. the blog name will NOT automatically change over when you change your user name.

    i hate to say this jen, but you might have to give up your BC postition or swtich the boards to which you BC. if your H knows what boards you BC on, he'll easily track your new username.

    i will keep you and your dd in my thoughts and prayers. i can't imagine how difficult this must be for you. please don't be afraid to rely on us here for support.

    if you change your name, please PM me so i can "find" you and keep up with you.
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    SO glad to see you ok..

    I am glad to see you have your head up and good luck!
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    our Family is complete!!!


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