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    ***katiesmom - nosey question***

    Did you tell DH yet? How did he take the news?!?!
    Lisa
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    DS = the big 8!
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    Uh I am ashamed to say No I have not. I am waiting for the perfect moment I guess. I called him today at work and I was just going to do it and deal with it but he was interrupted twice and then he had to go now it is all about the hurricane and what we are doing to prepare and he is so busy with that I just cant seem to find the time. I have been close but I just got nervous about his reaction. I know this sounds nuts but if you knew all the ins and outs of why I am so nervous I think it would make more sense. For one thing I am scarred for life after his behavior with ds. I just dont want him to poop on my happiness. We have talked about it alot and he has been so back and forth about it. I think he just thought it would be highly unlikely to happen anyway so he told me what I wanted to hear. Oh I just dont know maybe I am just nuts and over-analyzing. But thanks for all the postive thoughts.
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    *KB natural suprise miracle born at 28 weeks 9/14/99 due to HELLP syn.
    *JB another natural suprise 6/16/04
    AND BABY make three MADISON CLAIRE!!!!! born June 22nd 6lbs 2 oz our family is complete


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    No need to be ashamed! I do understand even if I don't know the ins and outs. When we started ttc I was a bit nervous about DH not wanting to hassle with all the appointments, etc (between him having to provide specimens and take DS to daycare to accomodate my appointments). I guess it is not always the ideal situation or the timing of things can make it hard. But, I do believe that everything will work out for you and you will know when the time is right You have enough to worry about right now.

    Again, please stay safe!
    Lisa
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    Thanks I have been back and forth to this darn puter all day trying to build up nerve and figure out how to go about it. I will tell him sometime within the next nine months
    Linda

    TTC 4 years 6 failed Clomid/HCG/IUI
    *KB natural suprise miracle born at 28 weeks 9/14/99 due to HELLP syn.
    *JB another natural suprise 6/16/04
    AND BABY make three MADISON CLAIRE!!!!! born June 22nd 6lbs 2 oz our family is complete


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    LOL, I am thinking at some point he will figure it out. Good luck
    Lisa
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