You have got to be kidding me

[Deswife03]

So every Tuesday we have company meetings to talk about business crap and then of course 3 of the women who work her announced their pregnancies!!! The universe really has a way of kicking you when your already down...So now that is all anyone can talk about and how happy they and bla bla bla complaining about being sick....It seams like everyone I know is getting pregnant or having a baby by "mistake" and we have been ttc for 2 yrs and nothing. Well anyway thanks for letting me vent. I guess why I am upset is I am starting to doubt if this will ever really happen for us.

[Fairymom]

So sorry Wannabe. The ones who volunteer that their pgcy was an 'accident' just kill me. I want to say 'oh, really? Then you shouldn't be doing whatever it was that got you pg by accident!' We really have diarrhea of the mouth as a society - I don't understand why anyone would want to volunteer that information, personally.

[Writinit]

I'm sure that was a miserable, uncomfortable meeting for you. That absolutely scks. My favorite "woops" story was from my MIL. Who, the day she took me for my HSG, told me that my DH was an "oops." He always thought he was their love child (both parents were previously married with a child each). I laughed out loud. Then I realized... ow, that hurt. I was still cramping from all the dye. But... it's just funny that she's fessing this up now. I guess I was never in "danger" of such a thing, and will never know what that's like. There's no "oops" when this many drugs and this much $$ and all of these doctors are involved ....

[beaglenutty]

That really sucks. I feel like we live in a world of pg ladies. Some days it's so hard and it just doesn't seem fair at all. I hope we all can have our day to be the ones telling the great news to everybody. I just love it when people say I got pg the first month we tried.

[dippi]

DH and i have been TTC for 2 yrs now. my friend has had 3 babies in 3 yrs the youngest is 3 weeks old. <oh did i also say he is laying on me right now?> im baby sitting over night. yes i get to baby sit the babies for free lots. and it broke my heart every time i had to hear "im pregnant" then go threw my surgeries and then turn around the next week and take her and her babies to the DR. im not saying she isnt a wonderful mom. but i dont think that she ever stops to think about how i feel or how it will effect me. before she told me about the last pregnancy it had only been 1 month after i told her the DR said my only hope will be IVF. no i havent started IVF yet because well if only money grew on trees.
why dont people think first?

[Deswife03]

Hi Dippi,
I am so sorry that your friend is being insensitive. Sometimes I don't think that fertile people get it. Most of my friends know of our if issues and still they think that hearing about "their pg" or being around "their babies" is not hard for me. ((((((Big Hugs))))) I wish you the best of luck in your If Journey

[dippi]

no im not kidding. and he is still here i will have him till about 5 or 6 pm tonight. we have had a wonderful night and he is such a sweet baby, i dont know what it is but its like i cant stop thinking that i should be cuddling with my and DH baby. i even start to get upset when my DH is holding him and talking to him, its like an overwhelming feeling that i should just give up and that we will never get the child we so want together. i know she doesnt mean any harm, but when all 3 werent even ment to happen <whoopsies> then i feel like the harder i pray maybe someone is listening upstairs. i dont know how i am suppos to feel.

i will post more later, time to feed the baby