Is Anyone Out There?????????

[Nic_Oz]

Hi! It sounds like you have developed a case of happy hormones, which is a good thing! You don't sound like a 'hippie', you sound very content and relaxed, that's all

My happy hormones have kicked in... She is still kicking away, and I am still loving every second of it. I am due to meet Georgia on the 20th May... and time is starting to fly along now! Last time I really looked at my ticker, it said 131 days to go, now it is down to under 120, and I have no idea where those days went!

When are you due to meet your little one? Are you going to find out whether bub is a he or she, or are you going to hold out for the surprise? Glad to hear you are feeling great!

[sensitivelady]

i am due to meet baby Aug. 14th and yes i can't wait to discover if it is a he or she...i am hopping for a he, but i don't have any he names picked out, but if it is a girl i am considering Dallas, i love that name...how odd, we both like the city/state names...bold and beautiful...but we are doing fab...i heard the heartbeat for the first time yesterday...that was exciting...have you read Jenny McCartney's book Belly Laughs...it is so funny...check it out or buy it...it definetly had me rolling...chat with you soon.

[mamaamia]

i forgot i had even written so long ago.(under single boards) i just thought id peek n see if there was anyyone on here yet. hi nic!!! i have been so busy i have only 30 min m-f to check me em's and i always check the june board real quick to see whats going on. ok well nyways...funny story..remember that guy i was living w/ in l.a.(a.k.a. my babys daddy)ha ha..well i left on xmas day to move back to my hometown(fl) and havent asked for a dime!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and NEVER WOULD.. not from him. i kinda just want him to disappear! uhhh hes never like done anything(bad or good) to me i just cant even stand the thought of him..im not sure if you remember the story but i was just staying with him to get on my feet and it was his house or a homeless shelter. (literally)nyways........hes even offered to send me $. well yesterday i get this em from him with an "attatchment" to open..it was his freakin phone bill from dec...412.00 well i opened it up and apparrently theres is something wrong b/cuz there are several calls for like 10.88 for one minute. then the same # the same peak time but for 6 min. was 76 cents! i wrote him back saying i would call the phone co. on mon. am. to straighten it out...and i appolagized b/cuz i obviously did not realize the amount for one call for one minute( i was calling my family back home) POINT BEING!!!!!! can you believe after all im going through reading books about how to say goobye to a baby..working with several adoption agencys so i can find "the right" family for our daughter..which by the way is a very strange and painful and heartbreaking thing to do... i have been looking at couples and i did not like one of them b/cuz i did not like her wedding dress!!how do you "choose" a family for your baby?? i find something wrong with all of them.. one i didnt like b/cuz the wife and husband liked to flyfish..they had pics...outfit and all..."FLYFISHING?" no mother of my daughter is going to enjoy flyfishing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!all im going through and he sends me his phone bill!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!he wasnt mad or nything..hes just so freakin petty...uhhhhhhhhh i cant stand him!!!!!!!!!!!!how about him asking how im coping with everything????????MEN!!!!!!!!!!!! im not upset or anything i just CANNOTT!! believe he would do that i think its amusing and am so glad im not staying with him anymore.. which brings me to this question i cannot get out of my head......will you love a child as much if you cant stand the father? ok im done *****in...thanks for listening. im so glad you got your fiancial situation taken care of.. hope everythings great for you....w/b........karen.......

[homeschoolmom]

Karen~

Hey, it's been a long time since we've heard from you. I know this is a very old post, but I thought I would reply anyway. How are you doing? It's almost time for that baby to arrive. I read you were thinking of adoption. Anything on that or a decision to keep the baby? I know exactly how hard this is and want you to know I would love to help if you still need anything. I know you probably have decided which way your going, but I still wanted to answer your question on whether you can love the baby and hate the father. The answer is yes! I love my dd, but can't stand her father. He was abusive to me and I'm so glad I was able to get out of that situation! Now that she is older (12 yrs old) I'm now facing the questions, etc., but I'm still very glad for the decision I made and love her very much!
I wish you the very best and pray you have found peace in which ever decision you have made!


Michelle