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About LinkBacksAfter everything he puts me through. I found out he does not have any heat nor hot water for a month now. I called and asked why he does not have it was it because something that the landlord fault or because he can't afford the bill. He tells they owe $1,000 on the gas bill due to them being on PIP (which is the worse thing to do) and the gas company won't turn it on till it is all paid for. I told him I can't pay all of it till Feb but by then he would get his taxes. I said I will see what I can do. I then said you guys can come over here to use the shower or even sleep here if it is too cold. He said OK.
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12-13-2008, 08:59 PM #1
ABCGIRLZRegistered Userhas no status.
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Why am I so nice to my ex??
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12-13-2008, 09:47 PM #2
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Because we have hearts and most of these men don't...
Lori
"C&N" 9 year old twins
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12-13-2008, 10:08 PM #3
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I don't know if I would be nice enough to pay it for him. My H doesn't have cable or internet and asked to come over and use the computer for an hour and I said no. I would do it for something like a shower...at least I hope I would. Good for you!
"NEVER make someone a priority when they treat you as an option ""
Leslie
Kelsey 15 yrs.
Sarah 10 yrs.
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12-14-2008, 06:52 AM #4
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You're a GOOD woman!!!! Good for you for taking the "higher road"...I wonder if I could?
Lee; dh deceased 08/14/04
4 IVF/ICSI; 5 FETs; 1 IUI
Alyssa 05/06/01; Jessica 08/18/04; (both from donor sperm-- different donors)
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(all from dh's sperm) , including S and J, conjoined twins given back to God 02/14/03
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12-14-2008, 09:36 AM #5
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you are nice because that is who you are and you wouldn't treat anyone badly.
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12-14-2008, 08:08 PM #6
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Because you are a good person.....SINGLE Mom to 3 and 1 angel--B,, K, & C
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12-16-2008, 08:12 AM #7
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You are doing a lot more than I think you should, but I know it's coming from a good heart and a kind soul.
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12-18-2008, 11:34 AM #8
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because we get so used to mothering our incompetent ex's that's it's a hard habit to break!
dss 16, dsd 15
DS 10/05
DS 11/09
DD 7/12
GRAND FINALE due 4/21/13!!
b/d 1-21-05
"A person's a person, no matter how small" Dr. Seuss
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