Sad news.. CD1 here (m/c ment)

Ferret Mommy · 06-08-2009, 09:06 AM

So I had bleeding on and off on Sunday. I went to bed and woke up at 12am... more bleeding and this time bad bad cramping. I waited an hour and nothing changed, so we went to the er.

The HCG results..... 6. Thats it. There is no way I was still going up.. since it was only a 6 and its been a week of +++ HPTs.

Dh and I have talked and as long as I am feeling alright we will try again this month.

I had stopped taking my metformin... due to lack of forgetting... I will not be doing that next time.. just to be sure!!

jenisuzy · 06-08-2009, 10:26 AM

I'm so very sorry to hear that...you & DH are in my thoughts

Linaa78 · 06-08-2009, 11:20 AM

aww sweetie i am so sorry ((((((((huggs))))))))))

**BC-QueenValerie** · 06-08-2009, 11:36 AM

Hello*!!! :::::barge:::: sorry HUN*!!!! {{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}

BC-LittleaBige · 06-08-2009, 04:00 PM

Oh no, I hated seeing this. I am so sorry. Take care of yourself during this time.

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pmorris1274 · 08-04-2009, 01:56 PM

I know all too well how you feel. I have had 3 miscarriages and no live births myself. I wish you and your dh the very best at this sad time. I am glad you seem to be doing allright with it. Hang in there!

Hugs!

Ferret Mommy · 08-04-2009, 02:07 PM

Thank you.

Its tough.. I have a preg sister that is not making things any easier these days. If I dont try to get up in the morning, then its a day gone to waste. I can not reverse what has happened nor if I went back into time would there be anything to be done to change it.

I hope that all your dreams come true! Many hugs to you!!

pmorris1274 · 08-04-2009, 02:54 PM

Aw, Ferret. Many hugs to you as well. Yes, the other pregnant ladies make it really hard to bear this, don't they? My sister-in-law gave birth 2 weeks after my last M/C. Talk about a water faucet that could not be turned off! (My eyes!)

One thing that made me sad when I had my last miscarriages was that some people dared tell me they weren't babies, but just molecules and cells, etc. That was hard to hear because for me, they were my babies! Anyway, it helped to memorialize them in some way. I planted a beautiful flower plant in my flower bed for each one of my my lost babies. It helped (and still does) to see something beautiful and alive that was memorializing the babies that did not make it. The neat thing is that those 3 plants (bleeding heart, peony, and amaryllis) are the biggest and bushiest flowers in my garden. Coincidence? Maybe. I like to think that they are special plants. (O:

I hope all of your dreams come true, and the next baby is the one who will be here for many, many happy years!

AshRS · 08-04-2009, 03:00 PM

I am so so sorry to hear that. My thoughts are with you and your husband.

The flowers are a beautiful idea...and I think you are right, those are special ones, too

Ferret Mommy · 08-04-2009, 07:32 PM

The flowers are a lovely idea.. we just are not in a forever house.. we are renting..

BUT when our Dog passed... where she layed outside bloomed a lily.. well.. when we moved from that house I dug and found the bulb and it had split.. so its in a flower pot on our porch in the shade... never knew where that lily came from.. but we have it now.

I would like to do a tree.. wherever we end up.

06-08-2009, 09:06 AM	#1 (permalink)
Ferret Mommy 10000-15000 post ace of hearts Join Date: May 2005 Location: In My Place Posts: 10,907 Blog Entries: 42	Sad news.. CD1 here (m/c ment) So I had bleeding on and off on Sunday. I went to bed and woke up at 12am... more bleeding and this time bad bad cramping. I waited an hour and nothing changed, so we went to the er. The HCG results..... 6. Thats it. There is no way I was still going up.. since it was only a 6 and its been a week of +++ HPTs. Dh and I have talked and as long as I am feeling alright we will try again this month. I had stopped taking my metformin... due to lack of forgetting... I will not be doing that next time.. just to be sure!! Last edited by Ferret Mommy; 06-08-2009 at 09:16 AM.

06-08-2009, 11:20 AM	#3 (permalink)
Linaa78 200-299 post 4 of hearts Join Date: May 2008 Location: Philadelphia Posts: 271	aww sweetie i am so sorry ((((((((huggs)))))))))) __________________ Me(31)DH(41) DSS 17 & 5 ferrets 05/08 ~ 5w 10/08 ~ 6w 06/09 ~ 10w RPL testing and hysteroscopy....coming soon. http://adecadeofbfns.blogspot.com

06-08-2009, 11:36 AM	#4 (permalink)
BC-QueenValerie Come play at the FT Diner Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Detroit Area Posts: 4,553	Hello!!! :::::barge:::: sorry HUN!!!! {{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}} __________________ Valerie (32) Ken (33) Married 10/07/06 Officially TTC 8/06 DX'd with lazy tubes and MTHFR ~~cycles come and cycles go yet we still keep trying~~ ~TTC'd with EX for 6+ years...4 losses...2 ectopics and 2 m/c's~

08-04-2009, 01:56 PM	#6 (permalink)
pmorris1274 0-99 post 2 of hearts Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Utah Posts: 6	I am so sorry! I know all too well how you feel. I have had 3 miscarriages and no live births myself. I wish you and your dh the very best at this sad time. I am glad you seem to be doing allright with it. Hang in there! Hugs!

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06-08-2009, 10:26 AM	#2 (permalink)
jenisuzy 200-299 post 4 of hearts Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 215	I'm so very sorry to hear that...you & DH are in my thoughts

06-08-2009, 04:00 PM	#5 (permalink)
BC-LittleaBige PCOS / Parenting Preemies Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Right where I want to be! Posts: 4,126	Oh no, I hated seeing this. I am so sorry. Take care of yourself during this time. 's

08-04-2009, 02:07 PM	#7 (permalink)
Ferret Mommy 10000-15000 post ace of hearts Join Date: May 2005 Location: In My Place Posts: 10,907 Blog Entries: 42	Thank you. Its tough.. I have a preg sister that is not making things any easier these days. If I dont try to get up in the morning, then its a day gone to waste. I can not reverse what has happened nor if I went back into time would there be anything to be done to change it. I hope that all your dreams come true! Many hugs to you!!

08-04-2009, 02:54 PM	#8 (permalink)
pmorris1274 0-99 post 2 of hearts Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Utah Posts: 6	Aw, Ferret. Many hugs to you as well. Yes, the other pregnant ladies make it really hard to bear this, don't they? My sister-in-law gave birth 2 weeks after my last M/C. Talk about a water faucet that could not be turned off! (My eyes!) One thing that made me sad when I had my last miscarriages was that some people dared tell me they weren't babies, but just molecules and cells, etc. That was hard to hear because for me, they were my babies! Anyway, it helped to memorialize them in some way. I planted a beautiful flower plant in my flower bed for each one of my my lost babies. It helped (and still does) to see something beautiful and alive that was memorializing the babies that did not make it. The neat thing is that those 3 plants (bleeding heart, peony, and amaryllis) are the biggest and bushiest flowers in my garden. Coincidence? Maybe. I like to think that they are special plants. (O: I hope all of your dreams come true, and the next baby is the one who will be here for many, many happy years!

08-04-2009, 03:00 PM	#9 (permalink)
AshRS 0-99 post 2 of hearts Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 95	I am so so sorry to hear that. My thoughts are with you and your husband. The flowers are a beautiful idea...and I think you are right, those are special ones, too

08-04-2009, 07:32 PM	#10 (permalink)
Ferret Mommy 10000-15000 post ace of hearts Join Date: May 2005 Location: In My Place Posts: 10,907 Blog Entries: 42	The flowers are a lovely idea.. we just are not in a forever house.. we are renting.. BUT when our Dog passed... where she layed outside bloomed a lily.. well.. when we moved from that house I dug and found the bulb and it had split.. so its in a flower pot on our porch in the shade... never knew where that lily came from.. but we have it now. I would like to do a tree.. wherever we end up.