SAHM mom of two, wanting a third

[mimi 2]

I'm new to this site and I am not sure where this would go...I have a girl and a boy, three and a half and 14 months respectively....I really would like to have a third, but my last two pregnancies were high risk and very medically and emotionally stressful...My husband is very much on the fence and will not agree or disagree at this point..I just turned 39 last week and feel that time is not on my side....

Any one have some words of advice, suggestions, pep-talk, etc....I don't know how to sway my husband or whether I should even try....I just feel like our family isn't finished...Am I pushing my luck with a third?

I went into pre-term labor with both my daughter and son...went on complete bedrest for two months the first time and modified activity the second time...I contract from 27 weeks on..my first pregnancy went to almost 40 weeks, my second to 36 weeks...

[foogball]

Hi mimi 2, and welcome to Fertile Thoughts!

I totally understand your desire to have a third. I also feel like we are not done at 2, but my dh does! LOL

Here are a few boards that would be a great place for you to post:

http://www3.fertilethoughts.com/foru...splay.php?f=14
This is our general infertility board. It is a large board, and the women there are going through infertility for the first, second, third (and so on) time.

If you like a smaller, more intimate board, here is our secondary infertility board:
http://www3.fertilethoughts.com/foru...splay.php?f=41
This is a great place for those who already have a child (or children) and are wanting to get pregnant again. This is where I started at FT, and it's a great place.

Because you mentioned your age, here is our "Over 35" board:
http://www3.fertilethoughts.com/foru...splay.php?f=36
The ladies there are very kind, and would welcome you and give you the support you need!

If you have any further questions, feel free to ask or pm me!

Again, welcome!
Molly

[foogball]

Oh, and if you ever just want to chat with other SAHM, here is a great board:

http://www3.fertilethoughts.com/foru...play.php?f=161
this is our SAHM board!