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Old 06-16-2008, 09:34 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Thank You.........

Words can not express how much all of your kind and precious words ment to DH and I, I am so utterly lucky to have all of you and even though my heart is broken you all help to see the light in this total darkness I feel I wish you could have met Erin in her short stay she was the most beautiful soul and maybe one day I will be able to share her pics but not as of right now. We still have not had the funeral yet as all of these decisions are tough and hard to accept but will make definate plans in the next few days but I will definately let you all know what we will decide. We are doing a balloon release and on each balloon we will place a specific dream we have for Erin and let then fly to her, I am so lost and these decisions are the hardest I have ever had to make. I am so scared to do her wrong or make the wrong decision that we keep going in circles as DH and I have never had to deal with anything like this ever God Bless you all for the support for my family........

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Old 06-17-2008, 03:39 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Rhonda, once again I'm sorry-we're all sorry that you and your family are having to make these kind of arrangements and I know that you'll never forget Erin and she'll always be there with you all throughout each of your lives helping to pave the way. So when you are sad, feel lost, need strength think of her and the wonderful spirit she had in your womb that God called her to be one of his angels. And on those windy days when you feel that wind brush against you ever so softly, the goosebumps that appear for no reason know that is her letting you all know that she's alright. It won't be easy after all I've been there but you will get through. Much love and plenty of hugs/prayers from my family to yours.
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Old 06-17-2008, 09:50 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Rhonda, you and Wade are definitely going through the hardest thing in the world----the loss of a baby. I remember watching my sister and her husband make funeral arrangements for their baby, and it was so upsetting and heartbreaking. I pray God be with you and give you strength.
I think a balloon release will be a sweet thing for baby Erin. My sister did that and she still does it on her birthday.
You know that you have alot of support here. I am sure I can speak for all of us when I say that if there is ANYTHING we can do for you and your family to please let us know.
Many hugs and prayers for you and your family.
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Old 06-17-2008, 07:51 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Rhonda, No words can express how sorry I am for your loss. You and your family have been in my entire family's prayers and will continue to be. Sending you lots of love.
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Old 06-17-2008, 08:38 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Thank you all Today was hard, I went to the hospital and signed the release papers to the Funeral home so they can pick Erin up from the hospital morgue. We decided we are going to have Erin Cremated and then we will spread her ashes and do the balloon release in New Orleans. The Funeral home says they will pick up Erin tomorrow from the hospital and send her to Jackson to be cremated and hopefully she will be back by Friday but they cant be sure yet, Wade and I are getting a pure silver box for them to place her ashes in and we will have it engraved with her full name and date of birth so after we spread her ashes we can put her box her ashes were in into her Memory box they gave us at the hospital.
I am emotionally spent and will probably not be back on for a little while but know you are all in my thoughts, I just need to try to get myself and my family together and deal with the fact that our baby is dead and I can NEVER get pregnant again so we are not only dealing with our loss but also dealing with the fact I can not have any more babies.

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Old 06-18-2008, 07:36 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Oh Rhonda my heart just breaks for you right now. I am so sorry for all you are faced with and will continue to pray for your peace and comfort. Big hugs for you.
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Rhonda- I'm so very sorry for your loss. *hugs*
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Rhonda~~ Not sure if you will be on or not but if so, I will definitely e-mail you when I get home from vacation.... Sending lots of prayers and hugs your way!!!!
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Old 06-22-2008, 07:40 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Thank you all for the support, Erin should come back from the Crematory tomorrow but we bought her a beautiful pure silver box to place her ashes in when she comes home. I will keep updates coming as soon as we know all the decisions and when she will definately get home. I cant tell you how much the support means to me and my family.

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Old 06-23-2008, 12:19 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Rhonda-I was just thinking about you and your family. The silver box sounds like a nice place for Erin's ashes. I have a friend who lost her twins at 21 weeks and she chose the same route. I think she finds it comforting to have her little girls close to her like that. I hope you find it comforting as well. We're here for you when you need someone to talk to.
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