First timer....What should I expect at my appt with an RE on 3/11/10? (pg mentioned)

[Cel2]

Lilly, I am so sorry . I have been very wrapped up in life and not around much, but thinking about you ladies. I am glad you have a plan...I have been at the crossroads and know it's hard, but also know you need to feel like you've done all you can. I wish you so many good thoughts as you and DH re-group and move forward. At one point, we were looking at adoption and surrogacy as well as making decisions about further cycles and immune tx. I will keep checking in for your update.

Hi Winklehawk!

Guyserk, thinking of you and hope you are feeling well!

[guyserk]

***Pregnancy and Loss mentioned***SC-Cel-thanks for thinking of me. Things aren't going as well as I'd like. Have been bleeding all throughout second tri-they think it's placenta previa, but it could be possible placental abruption?. They can't diagnose anything official until 20 weeks, which is 3 weeks away. They do know it's my blood, so they said that's good sign. They also didn't put me on complete bed rest-in fact, they said I can do all my normal activities as long as I don't start gushing (that already happened once), so I continue to live life normally and i still bleed everyday. We'll see what the outcome will be. On a very, very sad note, my friend, who went through 1 cycle of IVF and got pregnant with a girl on that cycle, was suppose to deliver on May 29th via C-section. She went in for the scheduled delivery and they couldn't find a heartbeat-the baby had died. She even felt the baby move at around midnight the night before. It just shows me that there's never a "safe" zone, but to be grateful for each step of the way.

Hope all is going well with you. We planted a raspberry bush and a blackberry bush and so far they are flowering and growing!

[WhitneyAtFertilityAuthority]

Oh Guy: Im so sorry for your friend and for your scary experience of bleeding in second tri. Please, please stay on these boards for support during what is bound to be an evil three week wait. Try really hard to bathe that bean in happy hormones as hard as it is not to be totally strung out. Sending all positivity your way.