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Old 03-15-2006, 11:33 PM   #1 (permalink)
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My favorite holiday

I love Passover. I am a Passover goon. I am making Jordan practice "ma nishtana". He is three but he's getting it. Probably thinks his mother is nuts. I made him learn Sevivon Sov Sov Sov this Chanuka.

He's getting a new set of clothes and sandals. We always got our sandals for the summer at Passover.

I have not seen my sister in two years and she is coming for the holiday with her three kids. Ittai has his recruitment date for next August so its the last time he can travel for three years. The other two are younger.

I have been working hard to lose weight. Down 10 pounds. I'm getting new clothes myself I think.

I will be cooking for two days before the seder, since my sister is dangerous in the kitchen, and my mother just hates to cook.

Anyone else have big plans.

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Love the new Avatar Sharon - I thought you might be a bit of a Passover goon when I saw it!

We are still formulating plans - Passover is absolutely my favorite holiday! I think we are doing the first night with a group of friends and the second night at the synagogue - unfortunately we do not have family in the area to celebrate with.

Now that Mia is in sunday school I'm thinking she will be much more into it - and maybe even ask the 4 questions.

It will be good to be back in the US this year. When we lived in Australia, we had to go to the Jewish Centre the Sunday before passover to get matzoh, etc - they had in flown in from Melbourne!! So it will be fun this year to have a full complement of Pesach treats.

BTW - congrats on the 10 lbs!
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Old 03-17-2006, 09:38 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Passover is my favorite holiday as well!.
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We put an orange on our seder plate - anyone know why?
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Since its a matter of tradition as much as religion the things are not identical cross culturally. in israel the "zroa" is always a chicken wing. literally zroa is an arm. As is "be yad chazaka ve zroa netuya", literally "with a strong hand and outstreched arm" God led us out of Egypy. So the wing more closely represents an arm. being a vegetarian in my home I use a small branch/twig.

Now the orange??? Maybe that represents israel and the exodus itself.
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There are a few explanations for why some people put an orange on the seder plate - we always did it fo the reason that is now described as a myth.

Here is what is currently circulating as the reason - still not sure it is aboslutely accurate - I lifted it (probably in violation of all sorts of copyright laws) from jbooks.com

Susannah Heschel sets the record straight about the origins of placing an orange on the seder plate, a practice that has become widespread in mainstream as well as women's seders. She introduced that ritual in her home in the 1980s as a sign of solidarity with lesbians and gay men. The orange, she felt, suggested the fruitfulness the community enjoys when gays and lesbians are accepted into it. Over the years, as Heschel's custom spread throughout the Jewish community, a myth developed around it. The story went that she had added the orange to the seder plate after a man shouted at her that a woman belongs on the bimah (pulpit) as much as an orange on a seder plate.

The orange has come to represent the empowerment of Jewish women. By giving her account in these books, Heschel wants to affirm her original intention, and she is right to do so. But as symbols often do, this one has become larger than its originator. To many people the orange now stands for the inclusion of all who have been marginalized. Gays and lesbians, yes, but also all Jewish women, whose stories and voices were written out of the haggadah. And now, like the orange on the seder plate, these two volumes of Passover writings and rituals reclaim those stories and voices and place them where they should be, at the center of the festival of freedom
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There are a few explanations for why some people put an orange on the seder plate - we always did it fo the reason that is now described as a myth.

Here is what is currently circulating as the reason - still not sure it is aboslutely accurate - I lifted it (probably in violation of all sorts of copyright laws) from jbooks.com

Susannah Heschel sets the record straight about the origins of placing an orange on the seder plate, a practice that has become widespread in mainstream as well as women's seders. She introduced that ritual in her home in the 1980s as a sign of solidarity with lesbians and gay men. The orange, she felt, suggested the fruitfulness the community enjoys when gays and lesbians are accepted into it. Over the years, as Heschel's custom spread throughout the Jewish community, a myth developed around it. The story went that she had added the orange to the seder plate after a man shouted at her that a woman belongs on the bimah (pulpit) as much as an orange on a seder plate.

The orange has come to represent the empowerment of Jewish women. By giving her account in these books, Heschel wants to affirm her original intention, and she is right to do so. But as symbols often do, this one has become larger than its originator. To many people the orange now stands for the inclusion of all who have been marginalized. Gays and lesbians, yes, but also all Jewish women, whose stories and voices were written out of the haggadah. And now, like the orange on the seder plate, these two volumes of Passover writings and rituals reclaim those stories and voices and place them where they should be, at the center of the festival of freedom
The odd thing is to use something out of season. Its a winter fruit. Surprised they did not choose a spring fruit---like a peach, or maybe grapes (individual yet together.) Jewish holidays always use seasonal symbols.
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WELP we are flying down to florida to my parents house for passover. we are getting there the night before passover starts. so the first day there i hope dh and my dad will take the kids to the pool so i can help my mom in the kitchen. we will have both seders there and then we are leaving for orlando for 3 days........then back to my parents house.

i grew up in a strict house where we changed everything over for passover. dh grew up in a home where the box of matzo was next to the loaf of bread...............

so my kids don't get much religion...............glad we spend passover with my parents so my kids get a taste of it.
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