was anyone crying during transfer and stil got a bfp?

papadia · 10-30-2008, 06:15 AM

I read recently that stres during transfer seriously lowers chances for implantation.Please share your positive experience.Thank you!

jam3276 · 10-30-2008, 07:05 AM

I cried and stressed and still got a BFP this cycle...Perhaps crying lets the stress out...who knows...

papadia · 10-30-2008, 08:37 AM

jam first of all, congratulations!!!!I have read your posts and understand wht you've been thorough!
my concern is particularly during transfer when they showed me the embryos I stated crying and they didn't give me any sedation so I started like shaking I was sooo nervous....I read later that if the uterus contracts during transfer there's a great chance it won't implant...so I worry that I worried.....it's hard...

jam3276 · 10-30-2008, 08:55 AM

It is hard...but I was shaking as well because I was so cold and had to pee so bad...It all is too hard...Makes me angry sometimes...I am thinking of you...The TWW is never a ball of fun...

SmilingIrishIs · 10-30-2008, 01:04 PM

I cried during my transfer because when I was lying on the table, legs in stirrups they told me they were going to cancel the transfer. I had OHSS and they saw too much fluid in my abdomen. I cried and cried. After some talking, they agreed to transfer one embie. She is now 15 months old!
I was a mess before during and after transfer. I wouldn't worry too much. Best of luck!

CrystalAZ · 10-30-2008, 01:08 PM

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Originally Posted by jam3276

I was so cold and had to pee so bad.

This is why I am a BIG proponent of catheters. I had to pee so bad during my first transfer, that I had to cut short my "lie down and relax" time afterward. That cycle was BFN.

Then the next cycle, I did the catheter, so I could relax without needing to pee, and it made a huge difference in how I felt. That cycle resulted in my son.

I didn't cry during transfer either time though.

Crystal

lw962 · 10-30-2008, 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by papadia

jam first of all, congratulations!!!!I have read your posts and understand wht you've been thorough!
my concern is particularly during transfer when they showed me the embryos I stated crying and they didn't give me any sedation so I started like shaking I was sooo nervous....I read later that if the uterus contracts during transfer there's a great chance it won't implant...so I worry that I worried.....it's hard...

my doc prescribes valium to help the uterus relax during transfer. i have my et tomorrow, ill let u know how it goes.

lynn

10-30-2008, 06:15 AM	#1 (permalink)
papadia Registered User Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 22	was anyone crying during transfer and stil got a bfp? I read recently that stres during transfer seriously lowers chances for implantation.Please share your positive experience.Thank you!

10-30-2008, 07:05 AM	#2 (permalink)
jam3276 700-799 post 9 of hearts Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Harrisburg PA Posts: 715	I cried and stressed and still got a BFP this cycle...Perhaps crying lets the stress out...who knows... __________________ Jenn 32 Jeff 41- Male Factor (azospermia) & High FSH 1st IVF-BFN - 3 3day embies at Penn State Hershey...no look at FSH levels...4 IUI's that BFN as well . 2nd IVF- Shady Grove BFP!!!!!! Shared risk. 2 embies were put back and one produced our DS 1st FET- Shady Grove-BFN May 2008 2nd FET.Blighted ovum 3rd IVF- Success! Due 7/8/2009

10-30-2008, 08:55 AM	#4 (permalink)
jam3276 700-799 post 9 of hearts Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Harrisburg PA Posts: 715	It is hard...but I was shaking as well because I was so cold and had to pee so bad...It all is too hard...Makes me angry sometimes...I am thinking of you...The TWW is never a ball of fun... __________________ Jenn 32 Jeff 41- Male Factor (azospermia) & High FSH 1st IVF-BFN - 3 3day embies at Penn State Hershey...no look at FSH levels...4 IUI's that BFN as well . 2nd IVF- Shady Grove BFP!!!!!! Shared risk. 2 embies were put back and one produced our DS 1st FET- Shady Grove-BFN May 2008 2nd FET.Blighted ovum 3rd IVF- Success! Due 7/8/2009

10-30-2008, 01:04 PM	#5 (permalink)
SmilingIrishIs 500-599 post 7 of hearts Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Virginia Posts: 533	child mentioned I cried during my transfer because when I was lying on the table, legs in stirrups they told me they were going to cancel the transfer. I had OHSS and they saw too much fluid in my abdomen. I cried and cried. After some talking, they agreed to transfer one embie. She is now 15 months old! I was a mess before during and after transfer. I wouldn't worry too much. Best of luck!

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10-30-2008, 08:37 AM	#3 (permalink)
papadia Registered User Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 22	jam first of all, congratulations!!!!I have read your posts and understand wht you've been thorough! my concern is particularly during transfer when they showed me the embryos I stated crying and they didn't give me any sedation so I started like shaking I was sooo nervous....I read later that if the uterus contracts during transfer there's a great chance it won't implant...so I worry that I worried.....it's hard...