Hi everyone,
I'm feeling pretty down lately. I'm 6dp3dt & I've been feeling kinda queezy lately & real tired. Even though I know it could be the Estrace or the Progesterone working its course,you know what follows....Yep,I POAS today & it came out negative. DH doesn't even know I used a hpt,he's against it. I don't know why I did this to myself. Now all my positive attitude is gone,& I'm having doubts about this FET. I guess we'll find out on the 14th.
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Dx: Tubal Factor
1 ectopic(09/03)
IVF #1: BFN (July 2005)
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10-06-2005, 05:56 PM #1
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I POAS. WHY??????(same as other post)
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10-06-2005, 05:59 PM #2
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Today is waaaayyyyy too early to test! Karen's going to get mad at you!!
(I know it's hard - this is absolute torture. Try to be kind to yourself and not let the negativity get the best of you).
Janme 42, dh 49
'87 ectopic, lost tube; '94 natural pg m/c 13 wks,
endo, lap, Lupron, '02 1st ds
ttc#2 - 5+ long years yrs, unexpl, endo, high fsh - clomid X5, follistim/iui X2, ivf X2 - all bfn
'06 surprise natural pg - m/c 10 wks
'08 surprise natural pg - ectopic
'08 surprise natural pg - m/c 8 wks
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10-06-2005, 06:03 PM #3
Don't let the HPT get you down... They're not infallible! Like I've pointed out on other posts, I've peed all over some of those HPT's & nothing showed up. Not even the "I'm a working HPT test" line! Not to mention... You're a wee bit early!
Me 30 & DH 34 ..... TTC #1 for 2+ Years
01/25/05 - Tubes tied due to irreparable damage
1st IVF ET 03/26 - BFN 04/06
2nd IVF ET 10/09 - BFN 10/19
3rd IVF ET 04/10 - BFN 04/24 
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10-06-2005, 08:04 PM #4
Hey. Dont let yourself get down about this just yet. It really is early and like everyone says..pregnancy symptoms do not even start this early. There is not enough HCG in your system to even cause symptoms yet. Im one to talk since I did one with my fresh cycle. I waited until about 9dp3dt and it was negative so I knew. Now I kinda wish I didnt test but with everyone talking about cramping, spotting etc and I wasnt having any of that I wanted to know before I went for beta so it wouldnt be such a shock. You still have an excellent chance so hang in there. I know this sucks and we worry ourselves to death trying to guess the outcome but just try to stay positive and have faith. Please remind me of all this in about 3 weeks when Im in the 2ww.. HA HA!!! I wish you the best and will be praying that you get your miracle!!
Penny
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10-07-2005, 12:02 AM #5
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Way too early Jen!
In fact - after my "episode" with the EVIL PEE STICK, I don't sanction it at ALL!!
Stay away from it!
In fact pee sticks and AF rank on the same scale, IMHO!!!Anira (31) & DH Vijay (31) Furbaby - 3 year old German Shepherd - Rocket
IVF #1 - November 2004: BFP m/c
25 Jan 05 @ 11weeks 2 days
FET #1 - September 2005: BFN
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10-07-2005, 04:56 AM #6
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Jen,
I had a beta at 9dp5dt of 279 and at 4dp5dt = 6dp3dt, my HPTs were still negative!! Hang in there!!!! It IS still early!!!!
Jen
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10-07-2005, 06:15 AM #7
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Jen its way to early
Don't give up hope already !!!!
Lots of ++++++++ thoughts your way !!!! I know its hard but we can get through the next week and hopefully we will all get BFP's
LauraJoshua Michael 8/19/91
Taylor Lynn 6/11/03
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Emily Ann 3/6/07
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10-07-2005, 06:24 AM #8
way way wayyyyyyyy too early
Don't worry your BFP will come.
7 failed IUI's
3 Failed IVF's
#3 was a bust I suppose we are onto #4
IVF#4 May/June 2007. For now it's accupuncture and herbs. I will get
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10-07-2005, 08:03 AM #9
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Sweetie, it is WAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYY too early to even think about getting a positive on an hpt!!! At this point, you'd probably even be hard pressed to get a positive beta!!!!!! When I did my last cycle for myself, my RE snuck in 2 beta's on me before my official one & at 7dpt my beta was negative, at 10dpt it was only 24.6, so had I hpt'd on 10dpt, I still would've gotten a negative hpt. My beta at 13dpt was 177 & my DD will be 2 next month!!!!
You just hang in there & don't POAS again, until after your beta, ok?!
Karenttc #1 for 7 1/2 years
~ IVF #1, 6-93, cancelled; IVF#2/rescue ICSI- 7-99, failed
~(switched RE's) ZIFT/ICSI- 1-00, successful w/twins, lost 1 at 8w
~ ZIFT/ICSI #2, to try for #2- March '03- successful
~ GS- IVF #1, 7-05 failed. FET 10-05- BFP, m/c 5w5d
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10-07-2005, 08:06 AM #10
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I've already sent you an email.. to yell at you my dear friend.. its waaaaay to early.. stay positive.. we are all praying for you.. your BFP is on its way.. I just know it..
DAWN, QUEENS, NY, 28 DH 30
IVF #1 - Failed
FET #1 - it really works! Its a
Christopher
born 10/31/2006.
FET #2 - Gearing up for July 2007
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