Thanks so much everyone for your input. This was really a tough decsion for me....I do tend to trust myself more than most... BUT I really do love my RE, (he's a brilliant caring man that truly does seem to want to see us get preggo), and he suggested to go ahead and transfer. I was so up in the air right up until the day before transfer, I left a message that I was inclined to freeze them all this cycle and do a transfer next month, but that I would leave the final decision up to his call. A nurse called me back (about 15 hours before transfer) and said she spoke to him and he thinks I should proceed. So.........I said OK, we're going ahead w/ transfer. Transfer was on Wed... I had 6 good embies (they sure looked beautiful to me in the pic!). 2 7 cell, 2 8 cell, 1 9 cell and 1 10 cell. Four were graded 2ab or 2b, one was 3ab, and one 3b. The embryologist said all were good. Because of my age, (just turned 41), and previous failed tries, (and in case the fluid in uterus did indeed decrease my risk as I had read in the study), I asked to transfer them all to increase my changes of a pregnancy. Almost to my surprise, they let me. I had terrible second thoughts during the first day or so (maybe due to hormones)....hoping to G-d I didn't give these beautiful embies death sentences by transferring the in a uterus that had fluid during the cycle that may be toxic to them....but I keep going back to my RE saying he thought I shoud transfer, and that he knows way more than I do. I'm neurotically bed ridden since Wed, even used a bedpan...haha. My sweet mom came up to help wait on me so I don't have to get out of bed. I did acupuncture right before and after the transfer. Now just the dreaded 2WW.

for all of us. Georgina, thanks for your post... had I read it before the transfer it just may have been the push I needed to decide to freeze. During some of this process we just feel so helpless aren't we? And if we disagree with what our clinic says we're looked at as trouble makers or something, and we so desperately don't want to be outcast from a place we need so much to help us have our baby! It's all so difficult sometimes isn't it?
Good luck to us all,...settling in now for wat I'm sure will be about the longest 2 weeks of my life,
Tia

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