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    Hi All,

    I am 13days post 3dt of 3 embryos and I am super depressed! I do not think that it worked . I took another HPT today and it was still (-). I go for a beta in the morning, but what is the point? I don't think that it worked and I am soooooo depressed!!! I was really hoping that this one would work. Thanks, I just needed to vent a little.



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    Sending some your way. Hoping you'll get a pleasant surprise in the morning.


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    HPT's are evil and not reliable. Go for your beta tomorrow. There are so many women who took an HPT on the day of their beta and it came back negative. Several hours later they got their beta and it was positive. Hang on and do not HPT, please.

    Good luck tomorrow!!!!

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    Lots of luck on your beta tomorrow.

    I am 10dp3dt and I haven't hpt'd, but I am also feeling negative and despressed, very bummed out. I hope tomorrow has a great answer for you.

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    I'm sorry. I know that kind of pain. I'm pretty sure I'm -'ve as well. Please let us know how you're beta goes. You can't give up before the finish line. We're here if you need some help getting through this - esp. those painstaking hours waiting for the beta results.

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    Hang in there!! I know that it's hard to stay positive when you see that stupid hpt staring at you, but you know, we've seen ladies here get a negative hpt the MORNING of their beta, only to get a VERY positive beta!! One person I think of when I mention this to people is someone who did an hpt the morning of her beta- it was negative. She went for her beta, left the RE's to meet a friend for lunch & started bleeding & having some cramps. She KNEW that the cycle was over for sure, because she started bleeding & assumed it was AF. Can you imagine her shock & surprise when her beta call came in & her beta was over 250!!!!! She was even pregnant with twins & her twins are now over 1 1/2 years old!! So, please, hang tight just for a few more hours!!

    I'm hoping & praying that you are the next negative hpt/positive beta story I get to tell about.

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    Stay positive because it's not over till it's over. I hope you get very happy news tomorrow.

    lots of (((((HUGS))))) to you!
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    Pg Ment

    Please don't give up hope, Wait until your beta.
    Plenty of women don't get a ++ hpt and get a BFP beta.
    They have so many different tests on the market that
    read so many levels of hcg. I took 2 First responce early detection
    aka FRED and got BFN (twice) and my cycle was a success.
    I'll be looking for your post tomorrow! Take Care
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    Oh I hope you're wrong and you'll get a surprise of good news tomorrow. Praying for you...
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    You know HPTs are not that reliable! Go in for your beta! I hope it proves those HPTs wrong!!!!! My prayers are with you!
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