I've been posting on the surrogacy bb but I have an IVF question we thought you all would be able to help me with...
A brief background on me:
I am 36/dh 40. I am very fortunate to have two sons, 15 and 13 from a previous marriage. DH and I have no living children together. In the course of our 2 year marriage we have lost 2 babies to prematurity. Sam born @25 weeks in 8/03, died 25 days later. Samantha born @22 weeks on 6/19/04. Emergency hysterectomy post delivery rendered me infertile. I have ovaries, cervix. DH and I got pregnant easily both times. Our hearts have been broken.
Now...we have a wonderful surrogate and we are currently getting ready to start 3rd cycle....
First cycle retrieved 9 eggs-6 fertilized-2 3day embies transferred=BFN. 2nd try 4 frozen-4 thawed-2 grow to blasts and transferred = BFN. Now waiting for 3rd cycle to begin end of April.
My question:
RE wants to go directly to blasts. I would love to hear any of you and your experiences/advice on this topic. Please be honest

The more information I have the better I feel about my choices. As you all know there are so many variables and time and money involved....and especially emotions.
Thank you in advance for anything you can offer me.
Hugs
Stella










. I don't know what I can tell you as I am doing my first IVF. But I just wanted to say hi and welcome.


