Beta was good but downhill 2 days later

Fanci · 01-31-2005, 10:16 PM

Hi Everyone! On Friday, Jan 28, 2005, I had good news. My beta test was 32. Today, Monday, Jan 31, 2005, my beta test was 10!!!

I am VERY VERY SAD. Not sure what to do now. We were so hopeful. We do have some frozen embryos left, but I am very discouraged. I don't what I did wrong? Is there something I could have done better?

Please give me some good news about frozen embryo transfers because that's our next option.

Thank you.

Fanci

agnes2712 · 01-31-2005, 10:20 PM

Fanci,
I am so sorry to hear your news

. I dont have any information on FET but I will keep you in my prayers.

Hugs,

Tammy

Soupy · 01-31-2005, 10:24 PM

Oh Fanci! I'm so sorry...there's nothing I can say other than its nothing you did. You didn't do anything wrong. These things are so hard to find reasons for. Do your grieving sweetie, and take a little time. Then when you're ready, gather yourself for the next step. I know lots of women on this board who were lucky with their frozen cycles. But for now, you do what you feel you need to do.

Many prayers to you and lots and lots of warm hugs.

Soupy

Fanci · 02-01-2005, 06:04 AM

Thank you ladies for your supporting words.

Fanci

marya · 02-01-2005, 06:38 AM

I'm so sorry Fanci. It really isn't anything you did wrong. I read somewhere that this happens to somewhere between 50-80% of natural conceptions. Most women just never know because they aren't monitored the way are.

As for the frozen cycle -- I just did my first one and got a BFP, so your chances are excellent that one of your frozen embies will bring you a wonderful 9 mos pgcy!

{{hugs}}

momwannabe · 02-01-2005, 06:51 AM

I posted on the other thread, but wanted to give you a

here as well.

Robin

Camel01 · 02-01-2005, 06:57 AM

Hi Fanci,
I am so sorry to hear this. There is nothing you could have done...it some times happens. Maybe it's just meant to be with one of your frozen embies. I'll be praying for you.
LeighAnn

flicka7 · 02-01-2005, 07:00 AM

Check out the FET board success stories. Many women, including me, get pg with FET but not Fresh cycles. I hope that's the case for you!

**BC-KarenS-MI** · 02-01-2005, 10:09 AM

Oh Fanci

You've done nothing wrong, there just must have been something wrong with your little one that it didn't stick around.

I know that doesn't ease your pain right now, but you can be very successful with your upcoming FET. Hang in there!!! We're all here for you.

Karen

coyne9167 · 02-01-2005, 10:30 AM

You have done nothing wrong. This whole IVF ride is so unpreditable.
I send hugs.

Kelly

01-31-2005, 10:16 PM	#1 (permalink)
Fanci Registered User Join Date: May 2004 Location: Houston, Texas, USA Posts: 15	Beta was good but downhill 2 days later Hi Everyone! On Friday, Jan 28, 2005, I had good news. My beta test was 32. Today, Monday, Jan 31, 2005, my beta test was 10!!! I am VERY VERY SAD. Not sure what to do now. We were so hopeful. We do have some frozen embryos left, but I am very discouraged. I don't what I did wrong? Is there something I could have done better? Please give me some good news about frozen embryo transfers because that's our next option. Thank you. Fanci

02-01-2005, 06:38 AM	#5 (permalink)
marya 5000-9999 post king of hearts Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 6,159	I'm so sorry Fanci. It really isn't anything you did wrong. I read somewhere that this happens to somewhere between 50-80% of natural conceptions. Most women just never know because they aren't monitored the way are. As for the frozen cycle -- I just did my first one and got a BFP, so your chances are excellent that one of your frozen embies will bring you a wonderful 9 mos pgcy! {{hugs}} Last edited by marya; 02-01-2005 at 10:17 AM.

02-01-2005, 06:51 AM	#6 (permalink)
momwannabe Registered User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: NY Posts: 1,746	I posted on the other thread, but wanted to give you a here as well. Robin __________________ Robin me 30, DH 31, dx: one ovary, TF,adhesions,endo,immune issues, thyroid issues 4 BFNs (3/04, 7/04, 1/05 & 6/05), 1 BFP (10/04)5wks IVF#6 8/2005 Finally EDD 5/20/06 YA- YA Luminary Governess of Hope whom will defeat IF from New York people

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01-31-2005, 10:20 PM	#2 (permalink)
agnes2712 1000-4999 post queen of hearts Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 4,672	Fanci, I am so sorry to hear your news . I dont have any information on FET but I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs, Tammy

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Soupy 900-999 post jack of hearts Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 976	Oh Fanci! I'm so sorry...there's nothing I can say other than its nothing you did. You didn't do anything wrong. These things are so hard to find reasons for. Do your grieving sweetie, and take a little time. Then when you're ready, gather yourself for the next step. I know lots of women on this board who were lucky with their frozen cycles. But for now, you do what you feel you need to do. Many prayers to you and lots and lots of warm hugs. Soupy

02-01-2005, 06:04 AM	#4 (permalink)
Fanci Registered User Join Date: May 2004 Location: Houston, Texas, USA Posts: 15	Thank you ladies for your supporting words. Fanci

02-01-2005, 10:09 AM	#9 (permalink)
BC-KarenS-MI Board Coordinator Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Michigan Posts: 28,043	Oh Fanci You've done nothing wrong, there just must have been something wrong with your little one that it didn't stick around. I know that doesn't ease your pain right now, but you can be very successful with your upcoming FET. Hang in there!!! We're all here for you. Karen __________________ ttc #1 for 7 1/2 years ~ IVF #1, 6-93, cancelled; IVF#2/rescue ICSI- 7-99, failed ~(switched RE's) ZIFT/ICSI- 1-00, successful w/twins, lost 1 at 8w ~ ZIFT/ICSI #2, to try for #2- March '03- successful ~ GS- IVF #1, 7-05 failed. FET 10-05- BFP, m/c 5w5d

02-01-2005, 10:30 AM	#10 (permalink)
coyne9167 Registered User Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 408	You have done nothing wrong. This whole IVF ride is so unpreditable. I send hugs. Kelly __________________ me 36 dh 35 ttc 1/04 IVF may 04 BFP low beta's praying for a miracle

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