I know it's kind of a weird question. But... I are you 'allowed' to have sex during your cycle? I guess that during the suppression and stimming phase maybe..I'm sure there is a cut off date and I know that after ER and ET you can't at all.
Any info Ladies?
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10-14-2006, 10:22 AM #1Second ChancesRegistered Userhas no status.
Sex during IVF cycle?
10-14-2006, 10:26 AM #2KAYJAYRegistered Userhas no status.
I never feel up to sex during stims because my tummy feels so full, its painful. Also, I dont want anything swimming about when I go for scans (eewwww.....) However we do get jiggy during suppressing.
As for e/r onwards....its a no-no.... you dont want to risk an infection. My clinic doesnt want me to during the 2ww and if pg occurs, for the first 6 weeks.
Hope this helps!
10-14-2006, 10:28 AM #3Second ChancesRegistered Userhas no status.
I have no doubt that I"m going to feel like garbage for most of this... def. not anticipating feeling froggy. I knew about none during the 2ww and up to the ultrasound with a BFP.
I just didn't know about time up to ER. I know DH has to provide a 'fresh sample' Guess he's 'on his own'
10-14-2006, 10:42 AM #4SampaguitaSDRegistered Userhas no status.
Because I was on viagara suppositories, I couldn't have sex during this cycle.
My clinic, SIRM, asks their patients to have intercouse the night before transfer. Their reason (to quote my RE): The purpose of intercourse is that the seminal fluid has some hormones that help to "soften" the cervix and potentially make the trnasfer easier.
However, it's NOT necessary. They have stipulated that many women get pg despite not having the pre-ET intercourse.
We didn't because DH had TESE sperm retrieval on ER day & well, he's sporting 10 stitches & won't be active in that respect for at least another month or 2.
I'll be honest - I am NEVER in the mood when I'm cycling. My poor DH has been pretty bereft this last year & a half!
10-14-2006, 12:41 PM #5eliRegistered User Over 5,000 Posthas no status.
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10-14-2006, 01:21 PM #6romakeRegistered Userhas no status.
My clinic has us empty DH (they want fresh swimmers) the day that I take the trigger and then we have to abstain tell 2weeks after ER.
10-14-2006, 01:53 PM #7SampaguitaSDRegistered Userhas no status.
Originally Posted by BC-eli
I thought about that too in previous cycles where DH was getting antsy. I kept thinking, "I don't want Dr. A to see THAT!"
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