Feeling a little down

penny427 · 03-30-2005, 09:49 AM

Well today is 6dpiui and Im feeling very negative this morning. I was hoping Id wake up with cramping or some sign that this is working but other than a tiny aching feeling I have nothing. If this one is negative again Im gonna start wondering if Ill ever be a mommy. Dont ya think I would have some sort of sign by now? I know...Im losing my mind today and Im sure overreacting but Im sure you all have felt this way before thats why I come on here cuz it makes me feel better. How are all of you doing today? Any new symptoms? And for all those that got a BFP when did you start feeling symptoms?

China2007 · 03-30-2005, 10:06 AM

I can so relate to your post. I always expect to feel something.......anything in the 2ww.
Regretfully most people feel nothing. I have one daughter and my 2ww was the same as all the others. I was so shocked when I got the + hpt. I didn't even tell dh until after the beta because I was sure it was going to be chemical or something because I felt nothing. Dd is now 4.

So try not to read too much into what you feel or don't feel.

++++++thoughts to you.

Beth
ttc #2 cd4

Nan75 · 03-30-2005, 10:10 AM

Hi Penny,
I'm in the 2ww too at 5dpiui and don't feel any different this cycle either. I'm trying not to read into too much of anything as many BFPers have reported not feeling any different either.

Just wanted to let you know that you are not alone and we all understand how you feel.

I am having a hard time recently trying to figure out why its going to work "this time" as opposed to all the other tries. But it does...and it has for many. So trying to keep that in mind.

Thinking of you,
Nan

penny427 · 03-30-2005, 10:16 AM

Beth..Thanks for making me feel like there is some hope left. What ended up working with you when you had your daughter? Do you know when implantation is supposed to happen? i heard between 6 ad 12dpiui. See the problem with us is my dh. His count was low each day of our IUI's. Ive heard of people getting pregnant with less than a million, than I read on here my chances are really low. I also had a lot of lotiony yesterday(not sure about today) Im wondering if thats from the progesterone pills or something else.

penny427 · 03-30-2005, 10:20 AM

Thanks Nan. Did you have one or 2 IUI's?I had 2. One thurs and one fri. I guess I just have to keep in mind that if it doesnt work we can try again. Did you have good count for IUI? Also do you have a lot of cm? i know its personal butjust wondering.

studiohuron · 03-30-2005, 10:30 AM

Penny
I posted to you yesterday how during the 2ww of which I got bfp I was convinced I wasn't because I had no symptoms; though had many signs I wasnt BFP! Plus I had such a hard time deciphering between what I was feeling due to all the meds I was on - and since most months we all switch up our meds- its a never ending game of "I felt this-what does that mean-what was that from"
Do your best to keep hopeful

SH

penny427 · 03-30-2005, 10:40 AM

Thanks studio..I will do that.

Nan75 · 03-30-2005, 11:07 AM

Hi Penny,
I had two IUIs also - Thurs & friday. My DH's count was good, but male factor isn't our problem. We don't know what is.

Not much CM at all this month - which is weird, but I 've heard clomid can do that.

Try to stay positive - or at least neutral. there's really NO way to predict what's going to happen this cycle so just try and get through the waiting game as best you can. It sucks, I know. I took up knitting and am loving it. Helps a lot with the waiting.

**BC-Sweedie** · 03-30-2005, 11:12 AM

NO! Don't expect to feel anything all, most women don't feel anything until 6 or 8 weeks pg.

I was lucky with my 1st pg as I had a tiny tiny tiny bit of spotting at 7dpiui and was constipated.
With pg#2, I really only had constpation about a week post ov, but after that I felt normal until m/s started kicking in a 8 weeks.

Feeling nothing is NOT a bad sign. It's so early. Hang in there, I know how frustrating it is. I always hated the 2nd week of the 2ww.

penny427 · 03-30-2005, 11:17 AM

Nan..thats pretty cool we had our IUI's on the same day. When did your RE tell you to test?Mine said the 10th which is 17dpiui but I would think I would start af by then if the witch comes at all. I may test earlier but Im not sure.I still have a lot of cm today. Dont know whats up with that. I took 50mg of clomid cd5-9 and 75iu of repronex a day cd9-11. I had 3 follies...24,16,14. I heard that injectables make them grow quicker so hopefully the 16 caught up. Did you have cm or cramping with your other IUI's?

03-30-2005, 09:49 AM	#1 (permalink)
penny427 Registered User Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Southern California Posts: 3,282	Feeling a little down Well today is 6dpiui and Im feeling very negative this morning. I was hoping Id wake up with cramping or some sign that this is working but other than a tiny aching feeling I have nothing. If this one is negative again Im gonna start wondering if Ill ever be a mommy. Dont ya think I would have some sort of sign by now? I know...Im losing my mind today and Im sure overreacting but Im sure you all have felt this way before thats why I come on here cuz it makes me feel better. How are all of you doing today? Any new symptoms? And for all those that got a BFP when did you start feeling symptoms?

03-30-2005, 10:06 AM	#2 (permalink)
China2007 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Canada Posts: 3,579 Blog Entries: 63	I can so relate to your post. I always expect to feel something.......anything in the 2ww. Regretfully most people feel nothing. I have one daughter and my 2ww was the same as all the others. I was so shocked when I got the + hpt. I didn't even tell dh until after the beta because I was sure it was going to be chemical or something because I felt nothing. Dd is now 4. So try not to read too much into what you feel or don't feel. ++++++thoughts to you. Beth ttc #2 cd4 __________________ B Dd 6 yo Dd LID April 19/06 Just remember - if the world didn't suck, we would all fall off. http://addingaptothepod.blogspot.com/

03-30-2005, 11:12 AM	#9 (permalink)
BC-Sweedie General Pregnancy / June Due Dates Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: IL Posts: 11,930 Blog Entries: 184	NO! Don't expect to feel anything all, most women don't feel anything until 6 or 8 weeks pg. I was lucky with my 1st pg as I had a tiny tiny tiny bit of spotting at 7dpiui and was constipated. With pg#2, I really only had constpation about a week post ov, but after that I felt normal until m/s started kicking in a 8 weeks. Feeling nothing is NOT a bad sign. It's so early. Hang in there, I know how frustrating it is. I always hated the 2nd week of the 2ww. __________________ Karen, high fsh'er After 6 IUI's proud mommy to Jason 7 Natural rest cycle miracle Heather 5 RIP furbabies Chili 9/30/98 - 8/11/08 and Bailey 8/29/95 - 12/27/08 We miss you both so much

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03-30-2005, 10:10 AM	#3 (permalink)
Nan75 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 615	Hi Penny, I'm in the 2ww too at 5dpiui and don't feel any different this cycle either. I'm trying not to read into too much of anything as many BFPers have reported not feeling any different either. Just wanted to let you know that you are not alone and we all understand how you feel. I am having a hard time recently trying to figure out why its going to work "this time" as opposed to all the other tries. But it does...and it has for many. So trying to keep that in mind. Thinking of you, Nan

03-30-2005, 10:16 AM	#4 (permalink)
penny427 Registered User Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Southern California Posts: 3,282	Beth..Thanks for making me feel like there is some hope left. What ended up working with you when you had your daughter? Do you know when implantation is supposed to happen? i heard between 6 ad 12dpiui. See the problem with us is my dh. His count was low each day of our IUI's. Ive heard of people getting pregnant with less than a million, than I read on here my chances are really low. I also had a lot of lotiony yesterday(not sure about today) Im wondering if thats from the progesterone pills or something else.

03-30-2005, 10:20 AM	#5 (permalink)
penny427 Registered User Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Southern California Posts: 3,282	Thanks Nan. Did you have one or 2 IUI's?I had 2. One thurs and one fri. I guess I just have to keep in mind that if it doesnt work we can try again. Did you have good count for IUI? Also do you have a lot of cm? i know its personal butjust wondering.

03-30-2005, 10:30 AM	#6 (permalink)
studiohuron Registered User Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 883	Penny I posted to you yesterday how during the 2ww of which I got bfp I was convinced I wasn't because I had no symptoms; though had many signs I wasnt BFP! Plus I had such a hard time deciphering between what I was feeling due to all the meds I was on - and since most months we all switch up our meds- its a never ending game of "I felt this-what does that mean-what was that from" Do your best to keep hopeful SH

03-30-2005, 10:40 AM	#7 (permalink)
penny427 Registered User Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Southern California Posts: 3,282	Thanks studio..I will do that.

03-30-2005, 11:07 AM	#8 (permalink)
Nan75 Registered User Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 615	Hi Penny, I had two IUIs also - Thurs & friday. My DH's count was good, but male factor isn't our problem. We don't know what is. Not much CM at all this month - which is weird, but I 've heard clomid can do that. Try to stay positive - or at least neutral. there's really NO way to predict what's going to happen this cycle so just try and get through the waiting game as best you can. It sucks, I know. I took up knitting and am loving it. Helps a lot with the waiting.

03-30-2005, 11:17 AM	#10 (permalink)
penny427 Registered User Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Southern California Posts: 3,282	Nan..thats pretty cool we had our IUI's on the same day. When did your RE tell you to test?Mine said the 10th which is 17dpiui but I would think I would start af by then if the witch comes at all. I may test earlier but Im not sure.I still have a lot of cm today. Dont know whats up with that. I took 50mg of clomid cd5-9 and 75iu of repronex a day cd9-11. I had 3 follies...24,16,14. I heard that injectables make them grow quicker so hopefully the 16 caught up. Did you have cm or cramping with your other IUI's?