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Old 04-01-2005, 06:51 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Hi everyone.

I was going to surprise you all after our 8w u/s on Tuesday with news that I was pg.....a natural conception after a chemical with Dr. Sher in Las Vegas BUT there wasn't a h/b found. Baby had died at about 4w but placenta took over & my beta up until yesterday was at 112,000. My family doctor was able to find us an OB in a big hurry yesterday to have a D&C done - I had it done last night. Our baby was taken from us & I feel so empty. I had such high hopes this time. I guess it just wasn't meant to be.

So very sad & praying that bad luck comes in 3's....we've had 2 chemicals & then this m/c.

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Old 04-01-2005, 08:04 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Lexi,

I am so sorry about your loss. How devastating for you and your family. Please take your time to grieve and mourn this terrible loss. I know there are no comforting words right now, but know that you and your family are in my prayers for healing. Be kind to yourself. Hugs,
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Lexi,
My heart breaks for you. May God send you peace and strength. Sending you lots of
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Oh Lexi, I am so sorry!
You've been quiet and I was praying you'd be sharing good news with us soon.
You are so close! I just hate for you to have to endure more disappointment. Know that I am thinking of and praying for you and your family.

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I am so very, very sorry. I've had 3 m/c's and know how heartwrenching they are. Please know my thoughts are with you.
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Lexi,

I'm so sorry about all of this. It shouldn't have happened like this. Take your time to heal.

I e-mailed you personally.

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Old 04-02-2005, 09:01 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Lexi...

our hearts are with you at such a sad time...
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it sure is hard to go thru something like this and it seems just so cruel and unfair... -- and yet I'm still so hopeful for you that the good news you will be sharing with us is just within a short time away... 1:

God Bless and may His Healing be with you physically and emotionally... love to you,
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Lexi im so sorry that just sucks! Please look into lit it sounds like me i really think that is the answer! Please keep me updated im at Dr C on April 13 IVIG my fingers are crossed for you. Love ya trace
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Thanks ladies for your support.

Trace - Now that I've had a m/c over the 6w mark, maybe I can convince Dr. C to do LIT......he told me that the only candidates are those that m/c over 6w...i he said t's not beneficial for those that m/c under 6w - this is our 3rd loss so when I only had the 1 or even 2nd loss, he wouldn't budge. I'll be making an appt. with him to talk & then figure out when to get back at the IVIg...maybe another month when my cycle gets back to "normal".

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