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Old 03-03-2005, 01:40 PM   #41 (permalink)
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That's great that your son is with you now My husband's sons are 7 and (9 in August). We hope too that with our being straight with them and supporting them that they will make the right choice. We want them to love their mom but she seems to be damaging them right now (I won't go into it but the older one has major self esteem issues) and we can't stand it. We go to court the 22nd over placement. I don't know if the "stupid" thing will be brought up - my husband is afraid she'll take it out on the oldest one at least b/c of how she is (long story) and she seems to get her way most of the time in court and be able to interpret things her way and they let her keep doing it. The whole issue is that she is controlling his days b/c of a temporary schedule and then her and her (crazy screaming) lawyer try to paint my husband as being bad - they are actually having a process server testify next time as to how he has been evasive when he's been served (she comes up with these crazy things to serve him on that get rejected). Ooh one time he pulled in to the driveway and left when he saw the guy's van in the driveway. Big deal that doesn't make him a bad parent. She is the one dragging the kids around, making them get up 3 hrs before school, damaging their self esteem, and trying to kick their (good) dad out of their lives. She's evil!
Well tomorrow I go for the Progesterone test and I think it should be OK - crossing my fingers - my temp has stayed up the past few days. I am looking forward to the gastroenterologist - need to concur this acid reflux and maybe test for parasites, etc. and get rid of these hives even...that would make ttc much easier! I'm sure my whole immune system/hormones are freaked out.
Any "pg" symptoms lately???

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Old 03-04-2005, 08:39 AM   #42 (permalink)
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Hey there, post later today and let me know the results of your progesterone test! After all the weirdeness I've been through, my RE seems to think my only 2 issues are progesterone deficiency and just the past maybe 8 months, the hostile mucus issue. What a relief it will be to you if that's all thats wrong, that can easily be fixed!! I'm not sure if I'm having pg sypmtoms or not! Last night when I got undressed for bed I noticed my boobs were very sore and they're still that way today....???? Also very sleepy but I know both those things can be caused by the progesterone pills I'm taking, very frustrating!!! Otherwise I feel pretty much the same as always. The last time I was pg, last June, I remember being very surprised that I was because I was having cramps, lower back ache, sore bbs, the whole 9 yards. I dont feel crampy at all so who knows? I have to run back to the hospital today so they can take more blood from me, I think they're testing progesterone levels again now that I actually have some! LOL! Let me know!
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Wow that would be great if that's all that's wrong and you can fix it! I hope too that I don't have any major issues. The SA we did last Friday was normal I don't know if they will have my Progesterone results today - they take a few days to a week there My temp went up a little today so it looks like I ovulated as far as my chart goes - crossing my fingers! I am still worried about this sore throat - hive thing and hope I can get to the bottom of it soon. I don't know if the gastroenterologist will just send me home with Prevacid or what. I have been sleeping with my upper body elevated and my husband said I haven't woken him up tossing and turning like I usually do. My throat still hurts and I do feel the constant burning-raw feeling at the back of my throat. Hopefully if anything is damaged (maybe my esophogus from acid reflux) I can heal it by taking Prevacid and keeping to my strict diet - which is boring...I need to read up on foods - I know to avoid tomatoes, onion, pop, cheese, chocolate, citrus, etc. So, I have to make sure of what I CAN eat and see if I feel better. I still wonder why the ENT didn't do swab tests on me but I'm not the doctor...
I am concerned about all the antibiotics I've been on and if they "goofed me up". The hives have been really mild lately so hoping they're fading away and my system is "normalizing". The last time they were bad was a few weeks ago - my forearms/wrists broke out really bad for a few days. I looked back and realized those were the nights before we went to court last time and I was going to have to testify (didn't) and I was really nervous and stressed.
I just want to get to the bottom of everything and make sure my body's balanced, you know?
I like this ob/gyn b/c they keep calling to update me, make sure I'm going for my tests, etc.
Hmmm I can see how you're frustrated! I hate the 2WW anyway and it seems like it takes forever. I know this cycle was a bust for me since I had to not ttc b/c of the Doxycycline.
Let me know if you get more possible pg symptoms! So you will test next Friday???
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Old 03-04-2005, 01:29 PM   #44 (permalink)
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hey there, Ive been a TOTAL slug today and havent even gone to get my blood drawn yet!! I just finished watching Kramer vs. Kramer, such a good movie and I havent seen it in forever! DH is coming home from work after a while to drag me off to the lab since I'm being so lazy, hee hee hee! I think it takes a week for the labs to get results back from the progesterone tests, so we'll both have to wait that one out. So you were getting hives on your forearms and wrists? Wow, that's never happened to me, I would get covered on my legs, stomache and of course the eye or sometimes lip. Just enough so that I would walk around looking like a total freak of nature! I still can't believe mine have suddenly gone away, very curious. But it never seemed to fail that I would have outbreaks on days that I worked and days when I didnt work, I was hive free. Maybe we're both just very sensitive creatures!! So you're actually sleeping upright cause the acid reflux is that bad? You poor thing, that comepletly sucks! Do you take prozac or anything like that? I used to take that and something else, I forget exactly what, and I had a bout with reflux and bad heartburn that would bother me abt every day for a couple of months. When I stopped taking the meds, viola, no more reflux or heartburn...And do antihistimes help the nasal drip at all? I do believe that antibiotics can mess up your system, we have to take them but along with killing off the bacteria, they kill off some of our helpful balancing bacteria as well. I have a feeling I'm not pregnant, it would just be very unlike my life to have 1 IUI and then BAM, get pregnant. I cant remember the last time ANYTHING was that easy, you know?? Oh and that's great the SA came back normal!!! Now you can rule that out and not worry about it! I actually made my poor honey stop eating fast food, anything with cottonseed oils, give up cokes and stop smoking, to try and get his count up a little! It worked though, at least that and the antibiotics he took for his infection. I know they're going to find out what's wrong and like Ive said, the infections you had would certainly keep you from getting pg all by themselves. I'm off to give away some blood!!!
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I went and did my urine test to see if the UTI is gone, then the Progesterone test. I didn't feel her put the needle in at all - very strange. I kept waiting for her to stick it in.
The last time some other lady jabbed me really hard and I had a huge bruise for over a week.
I think it will be OK (Prog.) but I am worried about physical things too - like if I'm scarred up or something. I keep praying I'm OK. The ob/gyn wants me to come in after the Progesterone test to talk about things. I wonder if he'll suggest I ttc a few mos THEN get a HSG or suggest I get a HSG done? I don't want to go through that but I hate wasting more time. Oops gotta pick up my dh's kids - will check in this weekend.
That's great you got your DH to cut things out and the SA improved
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Old 03-05-2005, 03:52 PM   #46 (permalink)
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The obgyn will definitely start going down the list of possibilities and you will feel such relief to have an actual gameplan I know! The HSG test really isnt a big deal at all...slightly uncomfortable for about 5-10 minutes and then doesnt feel like anything. I didnt even have any cramping afterward. As an added bonus getting the tubes cleaned out leads to a lot of women getting pg within the next month or so after having one! Well, I took a HPT this morning just to see what I could see, you know? The test came back negative and didnt even think on it for a few minutes, after I swear 20 seconds the thing popped up with 1 line. Sometimes I feel like they could give me a 24 hr IV of sperm for a week solid and I still wouldnt get pregnant!!! Part of what frustrates me to no end is that we HAVE been pregnant 3 times together and just couldnt STAY pregnant. Now that we know why I wasnt staying pregnant I cant GET pregnant to save my life!! If It wasnt such a serious thing I'd almost have to laugh at that big ball of irony! Plus we went to home depot today to buy plants and there was this little boy maybe 2 yrs old who got bonked on the head somehow and started crying. His mother was right there and just kinda ignored him with this bored look on her face while he was just crying "mama, mama". I almost lost it because I wanted to go pick him up and love on him, which of course strangers don't take kindly to(HAHA). I had to leave the line and go sit in the car because balling in the middle of home depot was simply not on my agenda today. I am by no means a perfect mother but it's hard to see stuff like that when I got a big fat not pg test this morning! UGGH! On top of that DH was just so oblivious that I wanted to smack his head! When he got back to the car he was like, "what's wrong?" And granted he's not a mind reader but sometimes a little sensitivity would be nice!! Anyway, have a good time with the kids!
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No results from the tests yet...
My temps keep going up - if I accidentally got pregnant I will be a little worried b/c I was on the Doxy. Why am I even thinking that??? I know how you feel about not getting pregnant to save your life. Well, I can't feel pessimistic yet - I had those infections the whole time I've been ttc. So, next month will be the "official" start...of course who knows if I am physically OK!!
Sorry about your HPT test - have you tested since?
I can't stand seeing moms screaming @ their kids in public and being mean - I just cringe.
We got a dachsund puppy (black and tan wire haired) Saturday - trying to potty train him
I'm taking him to my mom's today - she's good @ training dogs.
He's like having a baby - he cries whenever I'm out of his sight.
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How cute!!! What did you name puppy? You're smart to get a small one, the "puppy" I got in August is HUGE! Of course she is a chow chow named Charlotte, big but adorable! I was being silly taking that test so early, I think I thought it might be fun to get even a false positive! Sad I know! I'm supposed to take HPT on Friday but my husband is bugging me to take another one tomorrow, so I may do that. Its hard for him to understand that the progesterone mimics pregnancy so it doesnt mean much that I'm walking around feeling pregnant! Doxy wont hurt anything if you did end up pregnant, so dont worry about that. Let me know when you get your progesterone levels back!
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The kids named him Tango...we had a hard time remembering it @ first and my husband tried to get them to change it but they wouldn't. He's a real cutie! He is doing better w/potty training and we bought him a little house to sleep in - think he likes it now. I took him to my mom's and he was playing with their English Springer Spaniel - Tango was acting real tough barking @ him (the Springer was behind a gate).
I would LOVE a Chow Chow - cute!!!! I would LOVE a Shih Tzu or Peke too (had both when I lived w/my parents). Actually, if I could have tons of dogs I would.
The first two months I ttc I took a bunch of dollar store tests but I didn't feel too bad b/c they were cheap, but then I decided to wait til I had an "implant dip" or big-time pg symptoms, or was really late. Don't feel silly - if I were in your shoes I would be testing now too. That's cute how your husband is wanting you to test! Be sure to update me on your testing!
No test results yet - what takes so long @ that place??? Grrrrrrr.

My temps are still in the low 98's - cycle day 26 so if AF is coming it will be in the next 3-7 days.
I went to the gastronenterologist the other day - I just talked to a nurse practitioner and then saw the doctor for about one minute. The n.p. wrote about 5 words down while I was talking and the doctor just said we'll give you free Prevacid and then have an endoscopy done. Well, my husband isn't going to take a day off for that (they make you get someone to drive you home). So, who knows. My mom is a nurse and said just try the Prevacid...which is what I thought I'd do anyway...although I would like to know what's going on "in there" anyway as I have had stomach problems here and there for a long time.
I don't know...I'm so sick of going to doctors. This place kind of disappointed me - I really wanted someone who looked @ all my problems and I don't know...I guess they just try the easiest thing first but I just kind of felt like I didn't need to be there...
Now my right upper gums have been KILLING ME the past two days off and on - excruciating. Last time I had bad gum pain there the dentist said everything was fine - guess it was my sinuses - I don't know if this time it's my gums or sinuses. Sigh.
Well, keep me updated on your testing
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Hey there, Tango is a cute name, you never can tell what kids will come up with. When my son was little his father got him a cat that he named skids, why, I don't know, thought it better not to even ask! I don't have the rusults of my progesterone test either even though the lab person who took my blood said the result would probably be back in by monday, the dr. just hasnt listed it yet!! I took another HPT on wednesday which also came back negative ....People on the IUI board said it was too early to test and that I should redo it tomorrow, but seriously, do you think 2 days is going to make a positive result??? I really don't. It also seems that other girls who had an IUI done at the same time as me are all going back to their Dr.'s for a blood pg test and to discuss outcomes. Mine of course gave me no instructions and I'm starting to feel upset with my RE again, like she's not doing a whole lot for me! GRRRR! Maybe its because I have a child already? That doesnt mean I'm not having a genuine prob here and that I don't deserve as much attention and thought put into my case as anyone else! Maybe she's like that with everyone though, who knows?? I think I'm going to look for another RE just to get a second opinion and make myself feel better! Like you always say, no body's getting any younger!! If your gums hurt then that is sinus, I'm very allergic to cedar and mold which are abundant in TX and that always happens to me in the spring. My gums, teeth and whole face will ache for days! FUN! I know what you mean abt being sick of Dr.s'!!!! SOOO tired of all the poking and prodding!! When I had 2 m/c's back to back I didnt go back to a DR. for at least 8 months after that I was so exhausted with the whole thing! let me know your results when you get them!!
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