hi ladies,
its been a while since my last post here. i remember looking into so much for our "on break" period and really did appreciate all the info i got.
we just got our first BFP ever and are so grateful to this site! not only has it helped me emotionally, but it has made me feel active throughout this battle.
we were just about to proceed with IVF in september, but got our positive in august. all with BMS!

believe me ....we were very surprised.
our dx was primarily low sperm count.
since my last post (in april) we changed our recipe:
*we stopped with the accupuncture and teas (not that i think stopping helped, but we didnt have increased numbers after 6 months of giving it a shot...so we decided it wasnt for us)
*we continued with the fertility blend for dh (i found it at GNC stores)
*we continued with the L-arginine (also at GNC)
*also dh was taking a male multivitamin
*dh began to exercise a bit more
*dh switched to a much LESS stressfull job
*we both incorporated meat into our diets (after 10yrs of being vegetarians....very hard decision for me....but at that point i was willing to try anything)
*and still put a pillow under my hips after every sexual encounter
Now...it could have been one of those, all of those, or absolutely none of those. Not knowing is definitely the downside to all of this. Regardless, I needed to feel like i was "doing" something to fight IF with all my might. Even if it just meant getting as much information as i could. All i know is it doesnt hurt to try. i am all for us sharing whatever we think helps. of course i know the same thing doesnt work for all of us, but by picking and chosing our own methods of "trying" something to help, it helps us all feel more in control of such a difficult struggle....at least for me it has helped. I much rather be looking through posts, collecting info, and drowning myself with knowledge...than waiting around for AF. i tried that route and it was too depressing.
Its still too early in the game to say ive beat IF, but if all goes well....then i did beat IF!
And if it can happen to me, it can happen to any of us! We all have to stand strong and fight this battle together!
Lots of luck to all of us!