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Old 04-01-2008, 10:58 AM   #1 (permalink)
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I guess I'll post here? *lost child mentioned

I want to keep in the guidelines so I will try to be brief.
My name is Melly and I recently lost my first born on 2/19. ( to see his cute little pictures goto: logansworld.blog.com )
He was born 7/08/07, a seemingly heathy baby but soon things started to go down hill. We spent 6.5 months in the NICU and three wonderful weeks at home before things fell apart. He was never diagnosed and most likely will not be as there has never been anything described like him before.
DH and I are left with so many unanswered questions about our future.
We both seem heathy and have no history of genetic illness (that is known anyways) ... Our future as parents is unclear right now but I am in search of the right decision for us... whatever that is? I look forward to getting to know you all more...

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I am so very sorry for the loss of your little boy. I looked at your blog and he was just beautiful. I know that your heart is breaking. I lost my little boy in September and all I can say is just take one day at a time. You and your family will be in my prayers.
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Old 04-01-2008, 01:55 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Your son is beautiful. I'm so sorry that your loss.

Many hugs.

BTW there is a loss board on FT.

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My heart breaks for you and your DH at the loss of your percious Logan. I am a loss mom also and the link LMRC gave is a board where you can find wonderful support of other moms who know what you are going through..

Many hugs to you both~
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Old 04-01-2008, 02:39 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Logan is absolutely beautiful. Thank you for sharing his life with us. I wish his time with you hadn't been so short.
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I am so sorry for your loss of Logan. What a beautiful little boy.

I am also a loss mom....I hope you find us on the loss board....wonderful women who can empathize with you.
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