You know...I forgot to mention the importance of the nuchal translucency. That in combination with the ultrasound is the best way to detect problems. This is something that you should all know and I forgot to share with you. I went for the nuchal translucency, but was told that I was too advanced in terms of pregnancy for the exam. I had two other ultrasounds that put me exactly at 5 and 7 weeks...however, no other u/s until when I appeared at 13weeks for the nuchal translucency....my baby grew leaps and bounds during the 5/7th week and the 13th week. When I went for the nuchal translucency the doctor indicated that based on the size of the baby its gestational age was much more advanced and they could not perform the test. It was a real let down b/c I knew the importance of that test and felt like I had been deprived of something I so much needed.
Word of Wisdom: Nuchal translucency has to be performed between the 11-14th week I've been told...fetuses advance differently, so make sure you are not further along (even if you have had a timed conception) because your baby can advance much faster than you think. If by u/s they detect that your baby is larger than predicted, more than 11-14 weeks or so, you will be denied the nuchal translucency. I would highly suggest having your ob reconfirm the gestational age of your fetus at the 10-11 week just to make sure you aren't further along than expected.
Since I don't have the results from a nuchal translucency and nobody warned me that this could happen, I feel that I am without many options. Yes, I am glad the u/s thus far didn't pick up any markers, but my doctor told me 17 weeks is too early for an anatomical ultrasound --- they like to perform the ultrasound around the 20th week. I will still have the 20th week ultrasound (provided everything goes well), but I don't think it is wise to wait to the 20th week for an amnio b/c the amnio does not always go well....I've heard that, in some cases, they have to run the tests again for one reason or another and it takes approximately two weeks to get the results back, so it could potentially take 4 weeks (depending on how things go at the lab).
NOTE: if you pay an additional $$$$ for FISH you can have the preliminary results back in as little as two days.
I can't speak for other states, but I know that women have options up until their 24th weeks...(check with your doctor) after that no matter how severe a condition your baby is in.....you are having that baby, so that is why I am leaning towards an amnio prior to the 20th week...just in case.
Remember amnio looks for Trisomy 18, which is a lethal form of retardation...you can actually carry to term and baby will die within first week of being born.
In coming to a decision, regarding the amnio -- the genetist asked me two important questions -- altho she was not encouraging termination she did ask me if in the case of Trisomy 18, would I want to carry a baby to term, almost a full year, knowing that the baby won't last a day outside of the womb? She then said, considering your age, wouldn't you want to start trying again?
Well, ladies, I don't know about you but if the amnio revealed, that no matter how normal the baby looks, it would not last for more than a day outside the womb would I want to carry the baby to term? Well, obviously the answer is of course I want to carry this baby to term, but do I want to hinder or forego the opportunity of having a healthy baby by doing so. Remember as we all advance in age it is just going to get harder and harder to have children. I mean I am sure that for some it does not get harder, but I think we all know that it gets tougher with age.
Anyway, as it turns out, I am not an increased risk for Trisomy 18...in fact I have like a 1 in 4000 chance per the test, but there are false negatives....know what I mean?
I am already attached to this baby...very much so....the baby sucks its thumb. It was 14 weeks when I first saw it lift its arm and flex it at the elbow and attempt to do something with it....when I went back just three weeks later...the baby had been practicing b/c in one picture no thumb in the mouth....less than a second later in went the thumb....much faster. LOL....I asked for a picture of the thumb sucker...Anyway, I've always found thumb suckers very cute for one reason or another... LOL. I have at least three thumb suckers in my family...and I definitely would have been one, but instead I used to just put my hand up to my face....didn't quite get to the thumb sucking stage....Okay...I've gone off on a tangent...sorry.
Anyway, if things are going to go bad....really bad.....TRISOMY 18....I want to know now.
EDD 1/1/05
18 weeks
They think it's a girl!!!