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General Loss We all have different opinions on what a loss is. It could be the loss of a relative, pet, friend or loss of a job, divorce and so on. So if you experience a loss and need to talk or vent then please fell free to join right in .

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Old 04-28-2009, 06:57 PM   #1 (permalink)
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not looking forward to mother's day x-post

it's been just 4 months since my mom passed away.

this is what has happened since she passed away

x-mas
my sister's b-day
my brother's b-day
my b-day

6 great children's b-day
my son's b-day
her b-day
easter

mother's day

i'm starting to have a hard time with it. i don't want to accepted that she is gone. i just miss her so much.

mother's day is coming up soon ....i ws looking at cards today..trying to find the right one for her and then i remembered she is gone and i can't buy one.

i have decided tonight that i'm going to get some balloon's and let them go on mother's day.


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Old 04-29-2009, 05:37 AM   #2 (permalink)
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I know there are no words that can make things easier, other than time. Things are still so new to you.

Buy the card, sign it and leave it at her grave if it's local or easy for you to get too. I see were people have done this.

My Mom, would have been 73 on May 21st and will be gone 8 years on May 25th.

Time.......the pain never really goes away, but it will dull, after time.

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Old 05-10-2009, 03:25 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Great big hugs to you today. This is my 2nd mothers' day without my mom. I don't think a year has made it any easier. I miss her tremendously.

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