Forum: General Loss

It doesn't matter what I do or how i prepare, I cannot shake how sad I feel ths year. We lost our little girl, stillborn, on 23rd sept. We found out three days ago that she died because the cord had got wrapped around her neck and that's why... Just a freak accident. All the presents are...

Hey all! This is my first post on this site; so here it goes. Well on July 27th, 2011 I went into premature labor with my son Logan. His due date was November 11th 2011. I was very scared and sad that I had my baby so early. My son was born alive with a strong heartbeat but his poor little lungs...

Over the years I have noticed there are many ways that people express grief. So there is no right way or wrong way. Running on the squad I have seen everything for relief, saddness, anger, surprise, guilt and even a bit of happiness. Not sure of the reason behind this post other than thinking...

Feeling sad...tomorrow will be the first Fathers Day without my Daddy.. Don't look for it to be a fun day at all.

i love you and i miss you:tongue:

Had some computer issues and it wouldn't let me on here, but I hope I have that fixed now. I hope everyone got through Mother's Day ok. It was double hard for me.. 9th one without my Mom and the 1st without the children's Nana.. but we got through it. Hope all has been well..

Just wondering how things are going... Been sort of rough on this end.... I mean with spring starting (on the calendar any way), cause I know my Mom loved the warmer weather and my Dad would start preping the fields and things..... Missing them both.....

Just wanted to say hello and see if anyone had anything to say? Loss, no matter what the type is difficult and everyone views what a loss is differently as well as dealing with it.

43 years ago my Mom & Dad stepped into the world of parenthood for the 3rd and last time. Growing up wasn't easy, but I know you meant well. You did the best you could and I understand that now. Looking back though things weren't terrible, and for the most part I wouldn't change anything,...

My children's Nana has been fighting cancer for a couple of years now and she is close to the end of her journey. I was told last week---probably the weekend, but next weekend. Got the call Wednesday saying it was a matter of time.... I am sad about her leaving us, but I want her to be at...

Just wondering how everyone is doing?? The holidays, well were just another day for me to be honest... Missing my Mom and my Dad, made for sad days too..

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Just wondering how everyone is doing? I can feel my mood changing.. :(

So, fall is underway---any special thoughts or memories you would like to share...

Well, if I had stayed married I would have been married 17 years this past Friday (the 3rd)... I did better than I would have expected.. The chidlren were with me, and Joe is in the process of moving back to VA, so it went well.... My question is---------will I ever 100% trust somebody...

Just wondering how everyone is doing? Hope things are good for everyone and you are working through the healing process..

My 3 babies are in school now and in away I feel like I have missed their past 3 years..... I mean with everything that has gone on, the stress, trying very hard to find work and just life in general.. It sucks...

Wow it's hard to believe that summer is almost gone... So what type of fun stuff have you done??

I spent many months over on the infertility boards, as it took the DH and I two years and 10 IUI cycles when TTC #2. That group was so helpful in getting through those painful times, that I thought maybe someone on these boards might be able to help me once more... I am 33 yrs. old, and have...

My niece got married yesterday and for some reason it was really hard on me. I guess thinking that there is a very good chance I will never be able to to be married again. This is her second marriage, but I am happy for her.

Of your love one/ones? I know the hot weather reminds me of my Mom. She loved the summer and the hot weather. Plus she tanned so easy, I don't remember her getting sunburned at all...she would turn pink and then brown. Then there is hay season---she hated hair season at our house and if it...

Ever have one of those days when it seems like all the losses you have had come rushing back on you? I think today was one of those days..

Just wanted to say Hi and see how everyone doing? Not sure where you are in the grieving process but I hope you are taking it one day at a time and not rushing it.. Rushing it is not a good thing..

I remember like it was yesterday, the pain still there too that my Mom passed away. I was one of those who was with her.... :(

How are things for everyone? I hope time has brought some peace your way. :hug: