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    sometimes I feel that I should just give up:(

    After trying for 8 months, going through testing for another 4, going through a year of IUIs, and now trying an herbalogist/therapist for the last 2 months before resorting to IVF I was finally starting to relax a bit! I didn't even get so upset last month when af showed! Now, we geared up for another month & dh is sick this week of all weeks! This week of course being OV week! Now he's not in the mood to even try & so I may as well rack it up to another lost month. I just can't handle this anymore! It's been over 2 years & I'm so frustrated!

    Sorry, but I had to vent somewhere.



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    It's so hard. Wouldn't it be nice to be like (what seems like) everyone else, and just pop up pregnant?
    This fertiltiy stuff sure does cause a lot of stress.
    Hope things go better for you.
    Good Luck!!! You never know what month a gift may come.


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    Hang in there. Sometimes it seems like everything in the world is against you but you just have to keep on trying.

    Good luck.
    Debbie 42 Lee (DH) 40
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    u/s 7th Dec no heartbeat 11 weeks and 4 days

    IVF ICSI 8 BFN
    FET 2 BFN
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    IVF ICSI 10 - BFP MC 8w 5d

    IVF ICSI 11 BFN
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    Suzik,

    So sorry. It's so frustrating.
    even if you can't actually try this month, the herbologist/therapist is helping prepare your body for success next cycle.

    So sorry.


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    Thank you all for your kind words! Actually, dh is a real trooper & got up the spunk to try a little this week - though it might actually be too late, my temp went from 97.2 to 97.7 then 97.6....not sure if I Oed or not, yes it went up, but not as high as usual for post-o. Oh well, I guess I'll chalk it up to next month - who knows, perhaps I'll be pleasantly surprised!

    Good luck to everyone! Baby Dust!!


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