needing some help....PLEASE

deanandkrissy · 09-18-2009, 01:53 PM

Hi ladies,

I just had a failed IVF #1 and am going nuts.

We transferred 2 grade A blasts and had BFN, I don't know what went wrong. We now have 2 frozen grade B blasts left on ice waiting to be transferred but I'm not feeling to good about it. If the "perfect" ones did't stick why would the "not so perfect" ones?

Does anyone think that being overweight affects implantation? I know, It's only my first try but my RE and I were sure it was gonna work. I'm sooo sad!!

Needing some success stories please!!

deanandkrissy · 09-18-2009, 01:54 PM

All my blasts were also day 5....Oh my!!

jerseyjandj · 09-20-2009, 08:18 PM

w/ my first ivf i was 50pds overweight and it worked out for us but ive seen many ladies even thin ones that ivf1 didnt work .. i wish you guys the best of luck!!!

**BC-IrishBrat1313** · 09-26-2009, 06:43 AM

I'm so sorry your first IVF didn't work. I know there is always such hope in that first time around. As we go futher and futher into treatments we lose that hope.

I'm sure your dr might put some pressure on you to lose weight, but there could be other problems that aren't addressed. How about progestrone? What about linning? I would ask them for some more information about your cycle that way you can go in with a clean head on your next cycle. Your blasts don't have to be perfect to be the perfect one.

Lots of baby dust.

09-18-2009, 01:53 PM	#1 (permalink)
deanandkrissy 400-499 post 6 of hearts Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Brampton, ON Posts: 437 Blog Entries: 2	needing some help....PLEASE Hi ladies, I just had a failed IVF #1 and am going nuts. We transferred 2 grade A blasts and had BFN, I don't know what went wrong. We now have 2 frozen grade B blasts left on ice waiting to be transferred but I'm not feeling to good about it. If the "perfect" ones did't stick why would the "not so perfect" ones? Does anyone think that being overweight affects implantation? I know, It's only my first try but my RE and I were sure it was gonna work. I'm sooo sad!! Needing some success stories please!! __________________ Me (28) DH (34) IF-Two blocked tubes Married for 3 years this Aug '09 TTC-Most of our marriage IVF/ICSI #1 Aug 09 BFN Surgery to remove septum Nov '09 FET #1 2010

09-18-2009, 01:54 PM	#2 (permalink)
deanandkrissy 400-499 post 6 of hearts Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Brampton, ON Posts: 437 Blog Entries: 2	All my blasts were also day 5....Oh my!! __________________ Me (28) DH (34) IF-Two blocked tubes Married for 3 years this Aug '09 TTC-Most of our marriage IVF/ICSI #1 Aug 09 BFN Surgery to remove septum Nov '09 FET #1 2010

09-20-2009, 08:18 PM	#3 (permalink)
jerseyjandj 0-99 post 2 of hearts Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: nj Posts: 95	w/ my first ivf i was 50pds overweight and it worked out for us but ive seen many ladies even thin ones that ivf1 didnt work .. i wish you guys the best of luck!!! __________________ me~30~ still figuring whats wrong wit me dh~ 39~mf ds~7 dd~6months 6 rounds of clomid/1 chemical 06 1 ivf march/april 8 snow babies july 09~nat. pg <a target="_top" href="http://swagbucks.com/refer/jerseyjandj"><img alt="Search & Win" title="Search & Win" border="0" src="http://prodegebanners.sitegrip.com/images/swagbucks-173x63.jpg"></a>

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09-26-2009, 06:43 AM	#4 (permalink)
BC-IrishBrat1313 Just Trying To Help Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Lakeland, Georiga Posts: 3,665 Blog Entries: 471	I'm so sorry your first IVF didn't work. I know there is always such hope in that first time around. As we go futher and futher into treatments we lose that hope. I'm sure your dr might put some pressure on you to lose weight, but there could be other problems that aren't addressed. How about progestrone? What about linning? I would ask them for some more information about your cycle that way you can go in with a clean head on your next cycle. Your blasts don't have to be perfect to be the perfect one. Lots of baby dust.