Hi! I'm new to FET. I haven't had one either. I'm in the 2ww for a fresh cycle

My clinic called me today with the other embryos status. The embryologists make all the decisions, because my clinic requires certain criteria for freezing. On 2 days post retrieval, I had 8 embryos (one 2-cell, one 3-cell, five 4-cells, and one 5-cell). We transferred three 8-cell embyros on day 3 (7/26), and until today I was curiously waiting to see what my other embryos would do. I made a call yesterday and heard that they were watching four of the five that were leftover, and that they were all "early blasts". Today, I got a voice mail that "they froze two of them", and it's day 6 today. I called back for details, and they told me that they froze (via vitrification) two AB Blasts. The remaining 3 were as follows: a 2CC, a 2CB, and an 8-cell. What does that mean? I was so upset that they didn't freeze them with the others to possibly even give them a chance at a later date, but the embryologist said something about if the intercellular mass portion hasn't fully formed at this stage, then it's not worth saving. Can anyone elaborate or explain the grading? So, am I correct by assuming that if we had transferred some of those lower quality blastocysts that they didn't freeze on day 3 (at whatever stage they were then) since the intercell mass never formed in the lab, it wouldn't have formed inside me either and established a pregnancy? Or, did the intercell mass never form because it was sitting in the lab? What are the quality of the other two embryos that they froze (2AB)? Also, my clinic uses vitrification. They claim that vitrification reduces ice crystals, and there's a 95% success rate when they thaw. My clinic totally pushes this vitrification process. Anyone know the pros and cons of it? Thank you so much!
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Me(37),DH(38) TTC #5
DH: Bilateral Varicocele Repair 6/03,
Decreased Motility & Morph
DD 8/04 Natural after 12 mos TTC

DS: 6/06 IUI#1 BFP!

6/07: TTC#3, IUI#1 BFN

7/07: EP after IUI#2 for TTC#3. Right tube operated on but tube was spared.

DS Twins: 07/08 IVF BFP!


IUI#1 for baby#5: 6/09 BFN

IVF baby#5: 7/09 BFP, :

