Can IVF # 7-8 work

Maybebaby2009 · 07-14-2009, 03:17 PM

Dear all,

Im in very bad place, my IVF # 6 faild, i had my period 2 days before the test.

can any one know if frozen empryo work???
i have 5 frozen, but i have poor quality ova.

and i love my husband so much and he want to divorce me as he's family wanted a child badly.

does any one think it worth going for IVF # 7, IM i CRAZY FOR not giving up........

I can't imagine my life with out him, can i get pregnt with my frozen empryo?? chances so poor as my ova.

please share your experince with me

kindhiker · 07-15-2009, 12:28 PM

Oh honey, I am so sorry. I really hope that it's just your emotions regarding your hubby divorcing you. I am sure that of all the people in your and hubby's life (including his side of the family), there is no one who wants a baby more than you. Unless people have gone through it, nobody realizes the heartache associated with failed IVF and IF in general. If you have frozen embroys, use them. I have heard of people who get pregnant with FEs all the time. I also know of a lady who conceived on IVF #9 with DEs. Just know that you are not alone (I've experienced miscarriage, ectopic, and failed IVF too), and that you will be a mother one way or another. I am gearing up for another IVF cycle, and I'm scared. I long to experience a full term, healthy pregancy (just as you do), but we know that even if it doesn't work, I will find away to be a mommy, somehow. I think you should use the FEs, after working with doc on why this keeps happening. If you haven't, have you considered working with a different RE? I'll be rooting for you.

Maybebaby2009 · 07-15-2009, 01:26 PM

Thanks dear for your kind wards, really needed big time. i cried when i read that some one did it 9 times and it worked !!!
and the FET really thank you so much
now im so confuse sad and scar. its the truth when i said my husband will leave if i did not get pregnant. I m really so scared..........

Tarpy · 07-31-2009, 10:41 AM

I am a husband to my wife for 7 1/2 years with 6 miscarriages under our belt. I cannot believe your husband would do that to you agter all you are doing to try to have a baby. i keep telling my wife that if we don't have kids I'll love her just as much as I married her without any kids. I'm rooting for you as well and good luck!

Maybebaby2009 · 07-31-2009, 02:28 PM

Dear Tarpy,

thanks so much for your respond, our culture is diffrent.. my husband is the only son for his family. that why they are pressure him
i love my husband so dearly and really hope thing will work out.

barren-bipolar · 08-28-2009, 10:59 AM

Have you asked your husband if he would consider you becoming pregnant with a donor egg? If the extended family wants a baby so much, maybe they'd even pitch in with the additional expense. It would still be his sperm. It would totally be his flesh and blood. Many women who cannot get pregnant with their own eggs do very well with donor eggs. It is something I am seriously considering. I can understand the differences in culture and I know it is a serious matter.

cpgal · 08-28-2009, 11:17 AM

I am so sorry for your situation. I am sure your husband loves you and I do understand different cultures playing a strong role in all of this. A donated egg might be the perfect the solution for you all.

07-14-2009, 03:17 PM	#1 (permalink)
Maybebaby2009 0-99 post 2 of hearts Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 9	Can IVF # 7-8 work Dear all, Im in very bad place, my IVF # 6 faild, i had my period 2 days before the test. can any one know if frozen empryo work??? i have 5 frozen, but i have poor quality ova. and i love my husband so much and he want to divorce me as he's family wanted a child badly. does any one think it worth going for IVF # 7, IM i CRAZY FOR not giving up........ I can't imagine my life with out him, can i get pregnt with my frozen empryo?? chances so poor as my ova. please share your experince with me

08-28-2009, 10:59 AM	#6 (permalink)
barren-bipolar 300-399 post 5 of hearts Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: New York City Posts: 351	Have you asked your husband if he would consider you becoming pregnant with a donor egg? If the extended family wants a baby so much, maybe they'd even pitch in with the additional expense. It would still be his sperm. It would totally be his flesh and blood. Many women who cannot get pregnant with their own eggs do very well with donor eggs. It is something I am seriously considering. I can understand the differences in culture and I know it is a serious matter. __________________ me (34) DH (51), TTC #1 low ovarian reserve, hypothyroid, egg quality issues beginning IVF #3- looking for a golden egg http://bravebarrenbipolar.wordpress.com

08-28-2009, 11:17 AM	#7 (permalink)
cpgal 100-199 post 3 of hearts Join Date: May 2009 Location: Washington, DC Posts: 193	I am so sorry for your situation. I am sure your husband loves you and I do understand different cultures playing a strong role in all of this. A donated egg might be the perfect the solution for you all. __________________ About Us -- We are both 36, been married three years. Been trying for almost two. Had a miscarriage at 10 weeks. I have hypothyroidism Fluctuating male factor infertility Did Clomid d3-7 and IUI. July 15th IUI - BFN August cycle a bust - DH went out of town Sept 4th IUI - BFN October 2nd - IUI Going to try two cycles on our own before taking the plunge to IVF

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07-15-2009, 12:28 PM	#2 (permalink)
kindhiker 100-199 post 3 of hearts Join Date: May 2009 Location: IL Posts: 198 Blog Entries: 1	Oh honey, I am so sorry. I really hope that it's just your emotions regarding your hubby divorcing you. I am sure that of all the people in your and hubby's life (including his side of the family), there is no one who wants a baby more than you. Unless people have gone through it, nobody realizes the heartache associated with failed IVF and IF in general. If you have frozen embroys, use them. I have heard of people who get pregnant with FEs all the time. I also know of a lady who conceived on IVF #9 with DEs. Just know that you are not alone (I've experienced miscarriage, ectopic, and failed IVF too), and that you will be a mother one way or another. I am gearing up for another IVF cycle, and I'm scared. I long to experience a full term, healthy pregancy (just as you do), but we know that even if it doesn't work, I will find away to be a mommy, somehow. I think you should use the FEs, after working with doc on why this keeps happening. If you haven't, have you considered working with a different RE? I'll be rooting for you.

07-15-2009, 01:26 PM	#3 (permalink)
Maybebaby2009 0-99 post 2 of hearts Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 9	Thanks dear for your kind wards, really needed big time. i cried when i read that some one did it 9 times and it worked !!! and the FET really thank you so much now im so confuse sad and scar. its the truth when i said my husband will leave if i did not get pregnant. I m really so scared..........

07-31-2009, 10:41 AM	#4 (permalink)
Tarpy 0-99 post 2 of hearts Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 14	I am a husband to my wife for 7 1/2 years with 6 miscarriages under our belt. I cannot believe your husband would do that to you agter all you are doing to try to have a baby. i keep telling my wife that if we don't have kids I'll love her just as much as I married her without any kids. I'm rooting for you as well and good luck!

07-31-2009, 02:28 PM	#5 (permalink)
Maybebaby2009 0-99 post 2 of hearts Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 9	Dear Tarpy, thanks so much for your respond, our culture is diffrent.. my husband is the only son for his family. that why they are pressure him i love my husband so dearly and really hope thing will work out.