FET: Embryos didn't make it

[Leah2007]

I passed by this thread throughout my preparation for my FET...thinking "Oh...I feel for these women, but I won't have to join the thread..."

Well. I was prepared...mind, body, and spirit(for the first time in any cycle I think) for this FET and the 2 embies we had left did not make it. I honestly never even put that nto the equation. I just assumed they would thaw well...I am so mad because my clinic did not even call me that morning. y transfer was set for 1:30pm. I got there at 12:30pm. I was told the thaw started at 9am and the first one died right away. The other one was looking bad all along but thhey STILL waited until I got there to inform me of ANY of this. I am so mad at them for puting me through the humility of practically skipping in with joy, ready for the FET, then telling me the news.

I have a WONDERFUL 2 year old son we adopted just 6 months ago from Russia and want him to have a sibling. Thank goodness for him, otherwise I know this would have bee even MUCH harder. But now...where do we go? Money IS a big part of this... So many of the gals on my March FET board are pg and i am SOOOOOOO glad for them...but I never even had the chance...the one time I REALLY felt I was ready physically, mentally, and spiritually.

[BC-Erica J.]

I am so sorry! Many hugs coming your way!