Today was a tough day

Chanteuse · 11-26-2008, 09:43 PM

I lost a baby 4 years ago. My heart still hurts for a baby I will have to wait to hold.

**BC-MAV** · 11-27-2008, 07:51 AM

I am so sorry Chanteuse. We too lost babies several years ago. It was the 1st time we had a positive test. I'm thinking of you. Your time will come... it's not "if"... it's "when". Stay positive!

Chanteuse · 11-27-2008, 10:40 AM

Thank you. My time did come and that helps tremendously. I do feel blessed. I think our hearts always hurt for the ones we lost.

Mine was my first pregnancy too. Today is better. The loss has changed Thanksgiving for me to be a more spiritual time of reflection and gratitude.

Ruger · 11-27-2008, 12:45 PM

I lost my last baby Thanksgiving 2005...

The holidays are a little more difficult and a little more treasured --if that makes sense.

Chanteuse · 11-27-2008, 10:11 PM

It makes a lot of sense Ruger. (hugs)

11-26-2008, 09:43 PM	#1 (permalink)
Chanteuse 1000-4999 post queen of hearts Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 1,708	Today was a tough day I lost a baby 4 years ago. My heart still hurts for a baby I will have to wait to hold.

11-27-2008, 07:51 AM	#2 (permalink)
BC-MAV Board Coordinator for Surrogacy BB Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: way down yonder ... Posts: 30,445 Blog Entries: 50	I am so sorry Chanteuse. We too lost babies several years ago. It was the 1st time we had a positive test. I'm thinking of you. Your time will come... it's not "if"... it's "when". Stay positive! __________________ MAV Mom to B (9) A (4 1/2 ) (4/99) (4/05)

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11-27-2008, 10:40 AM	#3 (permalink)
Chanteuse 1000-4999 post queen of hearts Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 1,708	Thank you. My time did come and that helps tremendously. I do feel blessed. I think our hearts always hurt for the ones we lost. Mine was my first pregnancy too. Today is better. The loss has changed Thanksgiving for me to be a more spiritual time of reflection and gratitude.

11-27-2008, 12:45 PM	#4 (permalink)
Ruger 0-99 post 2 of hearts Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Alaska Posts: 96	I lost my last baby Thanksgiving 2005... The holidays are a little more difficult and a little more treasured --if that makes sense.

11-27-2008, 10:11 PM	#5 (permalink)
Chanteuse 1000-4999 post queen of hearts Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 1,708	It makes a lot of sense Ruger. (hugs)