new to all this...

wendy3223 · 10-20-2007, 12:10 AM

Hi all,
I've been over on the IVF board for almost a year now, and after three canceled cycles (no response to stims) we are going for ED. We have been matched with a donor, and will be doing our cycle in December...

Any advice from you more experienced ladies...I don't know what to expect as far as emotionally how I will end up feeling...

I just pray this works for us!

thebabyproject · 10-20-2007, 07:30 AM

Hello, Wendy, my friend.

For DE#1 I felt jealous initially. That she could do what I couldn't. The follie check reports were hard. Then as she got close to trigger and overstimmed a little I felt both guilty and phenomenally grateful. After ER I just felt grateful.

DE#2 was easier since I had processed all those emotions. I was mostly just glad she was doing this for me.

HTH,
Emily

10-20-2007, 12:10 AM	#1 (permalink)
wendy3223 1000-4999 post queen of hearts Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: california Posts: 1,199	new to all this... Hi all, I've been over on the IVF board for almost a year now, and after three canceled cycles (no response to stims) we are going for ED. We have been matched with a donor, and will be doing our cycle in December... Any advice from you more experienced ladies...I don't know what to expect as far as emotionally how I will end up feeling... I just pray this works for us!

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10-20-2007, 07:30 AM	#2 (permalink)
thebabyproject 1000-4999 post queen of hearts Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: South of Atlanta, GA Posts: 3,503 Blog Entries: 639	Hello, Wendy, my friend. For DE#1 I felt jealous initially. That she could do what I couldn't. The follie check reports were hard. Then as she got close to trigger and overstimmed a little I felt both guilty and phenomenally grateful. After ER I just felt grateful. DE#2 was easier since I had processed all those emotions. I was mostly just glad she was doing this for me. HTH, Emily