BFN for me

Julie_MA · 08-12-2006, 02:25 PM

Well diui # 3 ended in a bfn. Feeling just soo sad and not knowing how to go on from here

Crystal -- REALLY hoping that you got better news. Post an update when you can. I'm thinking of you.

50/50 · 08-12-2006, 05:02 PM

I'm so sorry to read your post Julie. I hope that whatever your next step is that it will bring your little one to you. (((hugs)))

MommytoKamryn · 08-12-2006, 08:40 PM

Julie- So sorry for your BFN. I know it hurts so bad. We are here to listen and help you...

**BC-donor** · 08-12-2006, 09:39 PM

Julie,
So sorry for your results. Would IVF be a better option for you guys? I don't know why you're using DS, but perhaps doing IVF with ICSI you could overcome any MF issues?

We're here for you. :grouhug:

Julie_MA · 08-13-2006, 03:54 PM

50/50 - Thanks for the support and encouragement. I REALLY needed that!!

Mommytokamryn - Thanks, I was so sad and depressed yesterday that I didn't know what else to say. I knew everyone here would understand.

BC-donor - Thanks for the suggestion. We have been on such a long journey that I'm not sure what will help us at this point. Here's a quick history:

ttc: 7 yrs.
me: 31 dh: 32 MF
12/00-1/01 2 IUIs bfn
7/01-6/04 6 cycles (YES 6!!!) IVFs (tried ICSI, AH & PGD)
1 chem. 1 m/c 5.6 wks. (blighted ovum) 4 bfns
11/05 DIUI 8 wk m/c
5/06 DIUI#2 chem.
7/06 DIUI#3 bfn...so sad...

We'll talk to the RE about DIVF during our next consult but, at this point I'm still feeling quiet hopeless.

Once again thank you all. I really appreciate your positive thoughts and support!

Julie

mmi · 08-13-2006, 03:56 PM

Are you doing medicated diui's??? (clomid or injections?) Hugs to you.

cs1984cs · 08-13-2006, 04:26 PM

Sorry to hear the news. I hope you can come to a peaceful solution.

maria2 · 08-13-2006, 07:05 PM

My heart goes out to you!! 1- listen to anything mmi says about treatment. 2 - it took us 5 cycles to conceive #1 and 7!! to conceive #2. And the 3rd cycle of #1 was my hardest for some reason. I took to my bed for an entire weekend, severely depressed. Your post takes me back. Sending thoughts of strength, you poor girl. It just totally totally sucks!!!
-maria2
mom to david 4.5 yrs and kate almost 2 yrs conceived via my eggs and diui

DiIP · 08-14-2006, 04:55 AM

Sending hugs to you and hopes that your next step gives you the child you want.

Julie_MA · 08-14-2006, 08:20 AM

mmi-here is a run down of my diuis-

Diui #1 clomid cd2-cd6 u/s trigger--Ovidrel...........Bfp m/c @8wks sooo sad!!!

(clomid thinned my lining to 5.7....yikes! maybe that was the problem)

Diui#2 75iu follistim u/s trigger--Antagon......chem. HCG 4
(this cycle was a BIG MESS I had too many follies, Re converted me to IVF then on ER day found I had already O. Did iui anyway but the timing was off)

Diui#3 75iu, 50iu follistim (they kept switching because they wanted to avoid too many follies.) u/s trigger--Ovidrel........bfn

any suggestions??? My ds has looked great, I can't help thinking it's something w/me.

cs1984cs & DiIP Thanks for the support and well wishes, I too (like most everyone else here) hope I can find some resolution and soon that special child that is meant for me and Dh. I'm not there yet but trying...

maria2-Thanks for the advice, I will take all that I can get, believe me!! And thanks for sharing your story, sometimes I feel like such a freak!! May I ask, did you use the same donor while ttc (for the 5 and 7 cycles?) Just wondering cause people keep suggesting I switch donors but, I'm not sure that's the problem in my situation.

Once again thank you ladies, your support and kind words really help me get through this!!

Julie

08-12-2006, 02:25 PM	#1 (permalink)
Julie_MA Registered User Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 255	BFN for me Well diui # 3 ended in a bfn. Feeling just soo sad and not knowing how to go on from here Crystal -- REALLY hoping that you got better news. Post an update when you can. I'm thinking of you.

08-12-2006, 08:40 PM	#3 (permalink)
MommytoKamryn Registered User Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: US Posts: 314	Julie- So sorry for your BFN. I know it hurts so bad. We are here to listen and help you... __________________ MommytoKamryn DH 32 and Myself 32 ttc #2 ovulatory dysfunction dh sterile 7th cycle Letrozole 5mg Nov 10th, 11th BFP U/S dec15th got to see heartbeat. DueDate 8-3-07

08-12-2006, 09:39 PM	#4 (permalink)
BC-donor 500-599 post 7 of hearts Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 587	Julie, So sorry for your results. Would IVF be a better option for you guys? I don't know why you're using DS, but perhaps doing IVF with ICSI you could overcome any MF issues? We're here for you. :grouhug: __________________ Multiple DE cycles, finally successful

08-13-2006, 03:54 PM	#5 (permalink)
Julie_MA Registered User Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 255	Thank you all 50/50 - Thanks for the support and encouragement. I REALLY needed that!! Mommytokamryn - Thanks, I was so sad and depressed yesterday that I didn't know what else to say. I knew everyone here would understand. BC-donor - Thanks for the suggestion. We have been on such a long journey that I'm not sure what will help us at this point. Here's a quick history: ttc: 7 yrs. me: 31 dh: 32 MF 12/00-1/01 2 IUIs bfn 7/01-6/04 6 cycles (YES 6!!!) IVFs (tried ICSI, AH & PGD) 1 chem. 1 m/c 5.6 wks. (blighted ovum) 4 bfns 11/05 DIUI 8 wk m/c 5/06 DIUI#2 chem. 7/06 DIUI#3 bfn...so sad... We'll talk to the RE about DIVF during our next consult but, at this point I'm still feeling quiet hopeless. Once again thank you all. I really appreciate your positive thoughts and support! Julie

08-13-2006, 03:56 PM	#6 (permalink)
mmi 5000-9999 post king of hearts Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 6,471	Are you doing medicated diui's??? (clomid or injections?) Hugs to you. __________________ 3 years and 15 medicated cycles(clomid, injections, iui's, ivf's, fet, you name it) and 2 angels before finally getting princess 1 (1999) 2 injection cycles for princess 2(2002) Truly miracles! "Life isn't measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."

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08-12-2006, 05:02 PM	#2 (permalink)
50/50 Registered User Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,927 Blog Entries: 18	I'm so sorry to read your post Julie. I hope that whatever your next step is that it will bring your little one to you. (((hugs)))

08-13-2006, 04:26 PM	#7 (permalink)
cs1984cs Registered User Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 2,198	Sorry to hear the news. I hope you can come to a peaceful solution.

08-13-2006, 07:05 PM	#8 (permalink)
maria2 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Oregon Posts: 477	My heart goes out to you!! 1- listen to anything mmi says about treatment. 2 - it took us 5 cycles to conceive #1 and 7!! to conceive #2. And the 3rd cycle of #1 was my hardest for some reason. I took to my bed for an entire weekend, severely depressed. Your post takes me back. Sending thoughts of strength, you poor girl. It just totally totally sucks!!! -maria2 mom to david 4.5 yrs and kate almost 2 yrs conceived via my eggs and diui

08-14-2006, 04:55 AM	#9 (permalink)
DiIP 5000-9999 post king of hearts Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 6,755 Blog Entries: 10	Sending hugs to you and hopes that your next step gives you the child you want. __________________ Warrior Princess D, Astro Slayer L born Oct 2001 C & R born Oct 2003 Don't you go looking for fair. Don't you expect a painless life. Don't go hunting for an easy road. Just you settle for wisdom.. T. Davis Bunn

08-14-2006, 08:20 AM	#10 (permalink)
Julie_MA Registered User Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 255	Thank You!! mmi-here is a run down of my diuis- Diui #1 clomid cd2-cd6 u/s trigger--Ovidrel...........Bfp m/c @8wks sooo sad!!! (clomid thinned my lining to 5.7....yikes! maybe that was the problem) Diui#2 75iu follistim u/s trigger--Antagon......chem. HCG 4 (this cycle was a BIG MESS I had too many follies, Re converted me to IVF then on ER day found I had already O. Did iui anyway but the timing was off) Diui#3 75iu, 50iu follistim (they kept switching because they wanted to avoid too many follies.) u/s trigger--Ovidrel........bfn any suggestions??? My ds has looked great, I can't help thinking it's something w/me. cs1984cs & DiIP Thanks for the support and well wishes, I too (like most everyone else here) hope I can find some resolution and soon that special child that is meant for me and Dh. I'm not there yet but trying... maria2-Thanks for the advice, I will take all that I can get, believe me!! And thanks for sharing your story, sometimes I feel like such a freak!! May I ask, did you use the same donor while ttc (for the 5 and 7 cycles?) Just wondering cause people keep suggesting I switch donors but, I'm not sure that's the problem in my situation. Once again thank you ladies, your support and kind words really help me get through this!! Julie

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