Hi and thanks for all of the kind words! It has been trying to say the least. I cried so hard and so much yesterday that I ruptured a vessel while blowing my nose and now I have an ear infection--oh joy!

My RE did end up calling and leaving us a message. We will speak live today hopefully. He did say that the only thing he can think of that was questionable was our "unproven" donor's egg quality issues...because the fertilization rate was markedly low...remember 24 mature eggs=4 embryos=2 blasts at transfer. So, from day one of fert, he said there may be something funky with her eggs...now he has to tell that poor girl! He did say that he thought if we had a different donor, we would have a different outcome. I'll probe him more later...maybe he means a "proven" donor.....now, DH and I just need to figure out how to finance an additional try. We are up to our you know what's in debt.....
I'll fill you in more later---so many thoughts racing thru the brain...I'm tired!