I'm ready to kick in heads..AAARRRRGGGHHHH (pg ment)

Goodthingscome · 09-05-2005, 02:16 AM

I have just found out that someone I know is 3 mths pregnant

. So naturally I did the right think and congratulated them and I said to her was ita nice surprise? Well we new it would happen pretty soon anyway she said!!!!!

Arrrgggghhhh!!!! I'm so PI$$ED off if only these people knew how lucky they are and to top it off three months ago she was whinging how she and her b/f spend about $300 a week on grog and they are both borderline alcholics who feed the one kid they already have baked beans or noodles for tea most nights cos they are too busy getting drunk!!!!

I just hate hearing crap like this. They may as well say yeah well we tried for a day and you know how it works!! Try and rub salt into the wounds some more. I cant quite feel my organs burning!!!!!

I'm just so hurt and angry and frustrated and disappointed. Here we are happily married, commited to one another paying off a house and trying to have a baby and we have to pay $800 a chance and fpr the last god knows how long they have religiously pi$$ed $300 a week against a wall.

It's just not fair

I HATE IF and thed unfairness of everything it just sucks.

Well sorry about the mile long post I just needed to vent or I'd scream...or shoot someone or something...lol

infertile_frog · 09-05-2005, 04:37 AM

I know how you feel. Two of my really good friends are both 5 months pregnant. Both of them decided that they wanted to have a baby at the same time and they just got pregnant when they wanted to. Its so frusterating. My Aunt once said to me, " I dont understand IF, if I wanted a baby, I just said so and got one." I cant stand those people.

And then there are all the mothers that you see when you are shopping that have babies. They are all around you and its painful.

Its a constant reminder!

g4ranny · 09-06-2005, 01:47 PM

We are all in the same boat here on the boards. Please know I am so sorry for the hurt you are probably feeling right now. I can totally relate but on a completely different level. Just this weekend I went to visit a girl I use to baby sit - she has been married for 4 years and has a 2 month old. Talk about hard! She was so excited for me to see her sweet girl and I stood there all clamed up ready to cry. She has no idea about our fertility issues. I wish we all could ease your pain - we are here for you!
Jennifer

Goodthingscome · 09-08-2005, 02:22 AM

Sorry for the late reply Infertile Frog and G4ranny,

Thankyou so much for your kind words. I thank God everyday that there is this bb, because otherwise I'd go crazy...lol

Its so nice to know that I'm not alone and that people understand my pain.

Once again thankyou and I know our times will come, I can believe that God would let the deadbeat druggo's and Alcho's have kids and not us.

WE WILL BE MOTHERS!!!!!!

Thankyou to you all,

deeja · 09-09-2005, 01:31 PM

Goodthingscome: It always seems to happen that way-I am celebrating 1 year of secondary IF and just heard from 3 friends that they are pg! It stings a bit but I try to have faith that there is a plan for us....stay strong and believe!

09-05-2005, 02:16 AM	#1 (permalink)
Goodthingscome 100-199 post 3 of hearts Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Victoria, Australia Posts: 172 Blog Entries: 4	I'm ready to kick in heads..AAARRRRGGGHHHH (pg ment) I have just found out that someone I know is 3 mths pregnant . So naturally I did the right think and congratulated them and I said to her was ita nice surprise? Well we new it would happen pretty soon anyway she said!!!!! Arrrgggghhhh!!!! I'm so PI$$ED off if only these people knew how lucky they are and to top it off three months ago she was whinging how she and her b/f spend about $300 a week on grog and they are both borderline alcholics who feed the one kid they already have baked beans or noodles for tea most nights cos they are too busy getting drunk!!!! I just hate hearing crap like this. They may as well say yeah well we tried for a day and you know how it works!! Try and rub salt into the wounds some more. I cant quite feel my organs burning!!!!! I'm just so hurt and angry and frustrated and disappointed. Here we are happily married, commited to one another paying off a house and trying to have a baby and we have to pay $800 a chance and fpr the last god knows how long they have religiously pi$$ed $300 a week against a wall. It's just not fair I HATE IF and thed unfairness of everything it just sucks. Well sorry about the mile long post I just needed to vent or I'd scream...or shoot someone or something...lol __________________ Vicky Shane 2002 IVF#1 - Jan 2006 - Cancelled IVF#2 - April 2006 - BFP- 1st Beta (24/4) - 489, 2nd beta (1/5) 4436, 3rd Beta(11/5) 30,000 ANDREW DANIEL BORN VIA C/S 12/8/06. HERE AT LAST!!!!!!! FET #1 BFP!!! PATRICK SHANE BORN VIA C/S 2/3/09. Last edited by Goodthingscome; 09-05-2005 at 02:18 AM.

09-08-2005, 02:22 AM	#4 (permalink)
Goodthingscome 100-199 post 3 of hearts Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Victoria, Australia Posts: 172 Blog Entries: 4	Sorry for the late reply Infertile Frog and G4ranny, Thankyou so much for your kind words. I thank God everyday that there is this bb, because otherwise I'd go crazy...lol Its so nice to know that I'm not alone and that people understand my pain. Once again thankyou and I know our times will come, I can believe that God would let the deadbeat druggo's and Alcho's have kids and not us. WE WILL BE MOTHERS!!!!!! Thankyou to you all, __________________ Vicky Shane 2002 IVF#1 - Jan 2006 - Cancelled IVF#2 - April 2006 - BFP- 1st Beta (24/4) - 489, 2nd beta (1/5) 4436, 3rd Beta(11/5) 30,000 ANDREW DANIEL BORN VIA C/S 12/8/06. HERE AT LAST!!!!!!! FET #1 BFP!!! PATRICK SHANE BORN VIA C/S 2/3/09.

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09-05-2005, 04:37 AM	#2 (permalink)
infertile_frog Registered User Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Ontario Posts: 84	I know how you feel. Two of my really good friends are both 5 months pregnant. Both of them decided that they wanted to have a baby at the same time and they just got pregnant when they wanted to. Its so frusterating. My Aunt once said to me, " I dont understand IF, if I wanted a baby, I just said so and got one." I cant stand those people. And then there are all the mothers that you see when you are shopping that have babies. They are all around you and its painful. Its a constant reminder!

09-06-2005, 01:47 PM	#3 (permalink)
g4ranny Registered User Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 317	We are all in the same boat here on the boards. Please know I am so sorry for the hurt you are probably feeling right now. I can totally relate but on a completely different level. Just this weekend I went to visit a girl I use to baby sit - she has been married for 4 years and has a 2 month old. Talk about hard! She was so excited for me to see her sweet girl and I stood there all clamed up ready to cry. She has no idea about our fertility issues. I wish we all could ease your pain - we are here for you! Jennifer

09-09-2005, 01:31 PM	#5 (permalink)
deeja Registered User Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Michigan Posts: 182	Goodthingscome: It always seems to happen that way-I am celebrating 1 year of secondary IF and just heard from 3 friends that they are pg! It stings a bit but I try to have faith that there is a plan for us....stay strong and believe!