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Emily'sMom · 03-22-2005, 03:00 PM

Wasn't your beta today? I know those nasty hpt's were negative but I'm still holding out hope for you.

Ellen

50/50 · 03-22-2005, 03:34 PM

I was thinking of you too. How did your beta go? Still keeping my fingers and toes crossed for you!

Laenae · 03-22-2005, 07:25 PM

Shan, how did the beta go? I am hoping the evil pee sticks were wrong. Please let us know.

shantup11 · 03-23-2005, 05:15 AM

Well, it's officially over.................I got the dreaded phone call yesterday around 3:30. BFN! I already knew but was holding on for a miracle. I guess that's just how it goes. It took me 2 donors, 2 fresh cyles and two frozen cycles to have my son so I guess to expect a positive right off the back was crazy!!

So...........here we go again. We are already talking about doing a frozen transfer. Hopefully sometime in May. Not sure, it could be sooner. I will know more when I talk to my RE.

Well, I just want to wish all of you with positive betas a wonderful 9 months and I will be crossing my fingers for those of you ttc. I will be thinking of you and will be sticking around to see how things are progressing!

Shan

Emily'sMom · 03-23-2005, 06:42 AM

Oh Shan. I'm so sorry. I was really hoping those evil pee sticks were wrong. I can't believe how many donor cycles you've been through already. It's just not fair. I wish you peace and look forward to cheering you on when you do an FET. Many ((((HUGS))))

Ellen

sskeele · 03-23-2005, 07:44 AM

Shan,

I'm so sorry to hear about your BFN. I've had two of those cycles and know how hard it is. You seem to have a great attitude - I guess it gets a little easier to see past it once you've succeeded after failure. I wish you all the luck on your frozen cycle.

My donor will probably do her trigger shot tonight. Retrieval will then be on Friday, with transfer Monday or, hopefully, Wednesday.

Congratulations to Laenae. That is such great news. Please keep us posted. I hope to follow you soon.

Shell

50/50 · 03-23-2005, 09:02 AM

Shan-

I'm so sorry. It isn't fair.

I wish you the best on your FET...hopefully that will do it! Please keep us posted.

50/50

Laenae · 03-25-2005, 11:15 AM

Shan,

Sorry about your BFN. I was hoping those evil pee sticks were wrong. I hope you can have your FET as soon as possible and then on your way to a BFP. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

03-22-2005, 03:00 PM	#1 (permalink)
Emily'sMom 5000-9999 post king of hearts Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Upstate NY Posts: 5,984	Shantup .. Wasn't your beta today? I know those nasty hpt's were negative but I'm still holding out hope for you. Ellen __________________ Ellen Mommy to a sweet miracle - Emily- 3/02 1st DEIVF - TWINS!!!! - Alexander David and - Katelyn Rose Arrived at 35w on 2/6/06

03-22-2005, 07:25 PM	#3 (permalink)
Laenae 1000-4999 post queen of hearts Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Blue State but Red State kind of Gal Posts: 2,689	Shan, how did the beta go? I am hoping the evil pee sticks were wrong. Please let us know. __________________ Age 49/DH 45 - Married 24 yrs. K 02/19/00 (Clomid/C-Section) High Risk 12 IUIs/inject.; 6 IVFs; 1 FET; 1 M/C Twins M 11/10/05 (C-Section) High Risk "Live a good life; and in the end, it's not the years in a life that count...it's the life in your years!" Abraham Lincoln "Man is not free unless government is limited." Ronald Reagan

03-23-2005, 06:42 AM	#5 (permalink)
Emily'sMom 5000-9999 post king of hearts Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Upstate NY Posts: 5,984	Oh Shan. I'm so sorry. I was really hoping those evil pee sticks were wrong. I can't believe how many donor cycles you've been through already. It's just not fair. I wish you peace and look forward to cheering you on when you do an FET. Many ((((HUGS)))) Ellen __________________ Ellen Mommy to a sweet miracle - Emily- 3/02 1st DEIVF - TWINS!!!! - Alexander David and - Katelyn Rose Arrived at 35w on 2/6/06

03-25-2005, 11:15 AM	#8 (permalink)
Laenae 1000-4999 post queen of hearts Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Blue State but Red State kind of Gal Posts: 2,689	Shan, Sorry about your BFN. I was hoping those evil pee sticks were wrong. I hope you can have your FET as soon as possible and then on your way to a BFP. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. __________________ Age 49/DH 45 - Married 24 yrs. K 02/19/00 (Clomid/C-Section) High Risk 12 IUIs/inject.; 6 IVFs; 1 FET; 1 M/C Twins M 11/10/05 (C-Section) High Risk "Live a good life; and in the end, it's not the years in a life that count...it's the life in your years!" Abraham Lincoln "Man is not free unless government is limited." Ronald Reagan

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03-22-2005, 03:34 PM	#2 (permalink)
50/50 Registered User Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,927 Blog Entries: 18	I was thinking of you too. How did your beta go? Still keeping my fingers and toes crossed for you!

03-23-2005, 05:15 AM	#4 (permalink)
shantup11 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 48	Well, it's officially over.................I got the dreaded phone call yesterday around 3:30. BFN! I already knew but was holding on for a miracle. I guess that's just how it goes. It took me 2 donors, 2 fresh cyles and two frozen cycles to have my son so I guess to expect a positive right off the back was crazy!! So...........here we go again. We are already talking about doing a frozen transfer. Hopefully sometime in May. Not sure, it could be sooner. I will know more when I talk to my RE. Well, I just want to wish all of you with positive betas a wonderful 9 months and I will be crossing my fingers for those of you ttc. I will be thinking of you and will be sticking around to see how things are progressing! Shan

03-23-2005, 07:44 AM	#6 (permalink)
sskeele Registered User Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Houston Texas Posts: 140	Shan, I'm so sorry to hear about your BFN. I've had two of those cycles and know how hard it is. You seem to have a great attitude - I guess it gets a little easier to see past it once you've succeeded after failure. I wish you all the luck on your frozen cycle. My donor will probably do her trigger shot tonight. Retrieval will then be on Friday, with transfer Monday or, hopefully, Wednesday. Congratulations to Laenae. That is such great news. Please keep us posted. I hope to follow you soon. Shell

03-23-2005, 09:02 AM	#7 (permalink)
50/50 Registered User Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 1,927 Blog Entries: 18	Shan- I'm so sorry. It isn't fair. I wish you the best on your FET...hopefully that will do it! Please keep us posted. 50/50