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02-20-2006, 12:35 PM
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Everyone okay?
I know, i know, stupid question.
 It's just i'm worried about a lot of you. We had a rush of new mommies  and lots of new posts and now it's gotten quiet again. I know what it's like to go through the pain and to take some time away from FT but please remember we're here for all of you as you mourn your babies. Much love, Jenn
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 Rayna b/d 10/22/01 at 21wks due to IC/PTL Hyland 9/18/02  Brennan born 2/14/07 Pregnant w/surprise miracle baby! IT'S A BOY!!!! 3/00 & 3/02
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02-20-2006, 02:03 PM
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I'll be back soon, just don't know how to write what's going on...even though I know you understand....plus I cant quite figure out where I belong here anymore...
Thanks for worrying about us though...
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Maryanne Andrew 8.5 (10-4-00) Lucas 7 (7-17-02) Annabella (11-4-08). (9-04) (blighted ovum) (4-05) (tubal pg) Isabella Antonia born asleep 2/10/06 at 19w (unexplained) 
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02-20-2006, 06:10 PM
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I understand completely.  I was at FT for quite awhile before i lost Rayna and it was so hard to know where i fitted in after too. Whenever you are ready to talk to us about your sweet Isabella (beautiful name you picked for your daughter btw) we are here to listen to you whether it's this board or the Loss of an Infant/Child bb.
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Rayna b/d 10/22/01 at 21wks due to IC/PTLHyland 9/18/02 Brennan born 2/14/07 Pregnant w/surprise miracle baby! IT'S A BOY!!!! 3/00 & 3/02
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02-20-2006, 06:15 PM
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Raw is definitely the appropriate word for your pain right now. Remember the Loss of an infant board too when you are ready. There are many moms there who have lost their children after 20wks. You may feel more comfortable posting there when you feel up to it. ,Jenn
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Rayna b/d 10/22/01 at 21wks due to IC/PTLHyland 9/18/02 Brennan born 2/14/07 Pregnant w/surprise miracle baby! IT'S A BOY!!!! 3/00 & 3/02
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02-20-2006, 07:35 PM
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I lost an 8 week baby in December. We had had a previous m/c so this time we didn't tell anyone until the 10 week u/s. As it turns out we didn't even get that far......... The point I'm stuck on, as in can't move from and just obsess about is that we lost a baby that no one knew we were having AND that there is nothing to show for this life. When we lost Jonathan at 20 weeks there was a memory box full of things to remember him by, but this one.................... There's nothing............ AND I AM SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO SAD ABOUT THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There's nothing to mark this baby's life. Ladies, you understand, remind me that a baby, even one that's so barely there is still a life. It still deserves rememberance and greif doesn't it? It's not like I just went in to the hospital to have my tonsils out, I HAD A BABY, IT WAS CONCEIVED FROM LOVE AND IT DIED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm sorry, I know that you guys know this but it feels like no one else does and I just want to shout it from the rooftops!
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