Forum: Coping with Pregnancy Loss

2 weeks ago I found out that I was pg naturally. We have never been pg naturally. 11 years of unexplained IF...one successful IVF and an international adoption. I saw a HB at 5w5d but it was only 70. Started spotting very lightly once on Sat and then again on Wed. US Wed confirmed that we had...

I was 5 months pregnant last Monday when I went in for an ultrasound only to find that there was no heartbeat. I was induced on that same day. It was a still born birth. A beautiful baby girl that I named Addison Marie. She was so tiny. So precious. What I wouldn't give to have her back here with...

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Hi Ladies, I just wanted to introduce myself as the new BC for this board and let you know this board is open and we are here to listen and help. I went through three losses in a short period of time and each and everyone were as painful and real as the first. The only people who really knew...

I found out that we lost our tiny little twins. I went in for a status update on Baby B, we found we lost the heartbeat on Baby A. I have passed my Due date in May and had a year anniversary right after with my other loss, but I really thought things would be different right now. I think the...

Hi - I haven't posted on FT in a few years. I used to post regularly on the IF boards and occasionally on the Loss boards. I suffered a second trimester miscarriage (very unusual) on September 14, 2000 at 16 weeks gestation. Yes - that's right...nine years ago. Gabriel was our one and only...

I just found out that my baby died at 7 weeks. I stopped progesterone on Friday and I'm still waiting to start bleeding. I have an appt Wednesday and if I haven't started yet, I think I'm going to have a d&c. It's been miserable this weekend waiting! Will it take longer for me to start because...

and how? I tend to be really sad around the holidays and in may. I mc'd twice in Nov and then my 3rd baby was due the beginning of Jan, but I knew she would have been born in Dec. I mc'd that one in May. I'm the only one who remembers, but I'd like to do something special for my angels so...

Greetings, Ladies -- My DH and I had been TTC for 5 years and finally got pregnant in 2007 via IUI (we found out on New Year's Eve!). To make a long story short, we found out we were pregnant with B/G twins and because of this and the fact that I am 35, I was considered a high-risk pregnancy. ...

As many of you probably know, October 15 is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day. I've started a thread on the Loss bb to remember all the lives lost during pregnancy and in infancy. Please feel free to add to it. Here's the link. ...

hi everyone it has been along time since i visited fertile thoughts, but i thought i would ask the question here because today is not a good day for me. Today our DS would have been 3 years old if my body wouldn't have failed him. i have been trying to keep busy today to try not to cry all day,...

Hi all, I’m sorry to be posting on this board – and for all of you that have had to post here too. Exactly one week ago we were informed we had a missed m/c at 8w gestation. From the u/s the fetus had stopped growing at 6w1d and there was no heartbeat. I stopped all meds (PIO) immediately. I...

i thought after buying a bench last year as a memorial for our lost twins, that i would be 'fine' this year, yet here i am dreading my twins second birthday on wednesday becuase i should have 3 year old twins as well. most of my family (except DH and my mum) seem to think that the twins we lost...

I am really unsure of my emotions and I am more scared than I have ever been in my life. I am an extremely non-emotional person and am the rock of the family; but this situation is unbearable! I am almost 34 weeks pg with one presumably healthy son and one deceased daughter. Her growth...

I am new here and many of you dont know me or my friend... but I believe prayers work and she needs a lot of them at the moment... X-post I am really shocked and scared... Please please pray for my friend... she has been through a lot already... she is in ICU now after delivering a very...

my due date was to be December 12th with triplets. Each day that gets closer to that day is a sad day. I see pregnant women everywhere, which just feels like a knife in the heart. I work retail with a wonderful girl who is due Dec 18th, (she is so nice- I just love her) all the customers come in...

17 years....Jan 4th-5th 1991 UGH of course, to add insult to injury, the sky was magnificently, and the temp almost hit 70..In JANUARY.. there should be a blizzard to equal the raging storm in my heart

Sorry that we all meet at this forum! Perhaps today is a better day for you than for me. Today I hit bottom again after trying to immerse myself into work and look forward to the future the last few weeks. Today one of my friend, same age as me just announced her healthy pregnancy and another...

Questions in last paragraph Hi everyone. I have never been here before. I don't have the right words, since I am confused. I tried for DD for YEARS with my ex, but he deicded he no longer wanted to try. I married DH and we had DD 8 months ago (natural surprise!). We found out we were...

Hi~ I had a missed m/c on April 23rd (12 week apt)- this was my very 1st pregnancy, so needless to say, the loss was very difficult for us. I got preg. through IVF/ICSI- I had a d&c 3 days later- I am still waiting for AF, it has been 9 1/2 weeks since the procedure. In the meantime, i have had...

It was 2 years in November since my little Girl, Ava, left. Things changed so much and I feel this horrible downward spiral. My dh and I barely talk or acknowledge each other. I have felt emotionally abandoned basically since she died. I have almost come to honestly, not like the person I'm...

We lost our little boy today. Jackie went to check on them and he had died in his sleep. We are cluess as to what happen. Please pray for Jackie and Scott. This is about to kill them. She is blaming herself.

I never thought I would be posting here one day, but here I am.... I lost my baby at 13.5 weeks. I went for my second appointment today, and the OB could not find the heart beat...I knew at this moment that I had lost the baby....She confirmed with an US that the baby looked smaller than 13.5 weeks...