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Month 10 and Stressed!!!!

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by , 05-21-2012 at 09:07 AM (285 Views)
Well month 10 has passed and I seem to be on the right path. I am not sure what the problem is...exactly. I have PCOS and seeing an RE. Well I have seen my RE and he says IUI is my best bet. The DH has no insurance and the IUI is about $300. We both have children with other people, so it's kind of frustrating.

On a regular basis I think it's best to just give up and move on. He doesn't want to do that and says it will happen. I wish I could be that positive but it seems unlikely without medical intervention. I worry that the first IUI won't be enough and we just dont have the $300 readily available to continue to keep trying. The IVF I am sure is more expensive.

I just wish I could understand why we are struggling and why this isn't happening for us.
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  1. mrsusher's Avatar
    vamomwant3,
    I feel your pain. I too have PCOS and am on the track for my first IUI within the next week or so. I spoke to the DR offices today and they told me our IUI will be $430 and payment is due at the time of procedure. We were saving for our vacation, but it’s looking like we may have to cancel if the first IUI doesn’t work.

    I wanted to give up the first time we got a BFN and its draining. Just stay hopeful and believe that this will work for you. I know it’s hard, but you have to do it. Positive thoughts bring positive results!!! I have also been trying to stay busy. Maybe that will help you to keep your mind on something else. EASIER SAID THEN DONE, I KNOW! But you gotta try. GOOD LUCK
  2. vamomwants3's Avatar
    Thanks for the encouragement. I get really down after getting my AF. I know its not totally impossible bc we both have others. I sometimes feel selfish complaining bc some people haven't even been blessed by one.

    My DH and I just want to have a child together. He loves kids and he would have more if it was up to him. LOL

    Trying to stay positive. :-)
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