SolaMama

Ok, so this guy tonight kept talking to me. I haven't been out in a while. I couldn't understand why he kept talking to me. Stupid I guess. We chatted and I just wanted to yell at him! I am a single mom. My son comes first! Weird I know. It has been a long time since a man has tried to pick me up from a bar. he doesn't get it. I don't want to mess with a man that doesn't get that he will never take the place of my son. He wants to take me to dinner tomorrow. I wanted to ask if he is ready to take ...

Chase and I went camping Saturday. We had a great time. There was a park close by Chase played and I sat on the sidelines. There was another young woman there and we were chatting a little. She told me about the 2 kids she was the aunt to and how it was the boys birthday. She then pointed them out and said "they were adopted into the family so they don't look anything like us" She didn't say it in a mean way but it hurt me as I wondered if the kids ever felt that way because she was so ...

My son has a lung defect called bronchomalacia. It is pretty rare and there is virtually no information out there about it. When he was first diagnosed, I did extensive research on it and the only thing I could find was a yahoo mail group for other malacia's but no one in the group had broncho. I haven't read the e-mails in a long time. The other day I was at work going through my email and decided to read an issue. it was a new dad, just had a baby with a heart defect and Bronchomalacia. I contacted ...

So, I dated a guy last fall. August through December. I knew him way back when and he started to get distant so I stopped returning his calls. Better to hurt than get hurt yeah? I have not heard from him since right before Christmas. he started calling me last week. He calls, texts, e-mails. Just chit chat stuff. He is in Texas, has an apartment, but comes to my state wuite often. He used to live here and supposedly still does. It almost sounds fishy though. His stbx lives in TX with his son. They ...

Work was long! We have an elderly volunteer who teaches one of our groups. She was in an accident last year and can no longer drive. She hired someone to drive her. She was a middle aged woman who was always on her cell phone. ALWAYS. She and I would joke about shoes. We would be the only 2 that would Clop while walking around the dining room. We talked about shoes and I told her about a hot orange pair I had. She asked me to bring them in. I won't get that chance now . She was found mnurdered ...

It went ok. A couple small red flags rose but nothing major. He mentioned that he had his kids next weekend but was going to get a sitter Saturday as he had tickets to a play. He only has his kids every other weekend and W#ednesday overnight but he only takes them for the evening cause it's just too difficult On his profile he said he was a business owner and lived in X County. He just disolved his business because he and his partner couldn't get along and is now working for someone else ...

This economy is awful! I am hiring for an admin assist an dI have received over 400 resumes. The ones that I have been ab;e to go through so far and have come in, have mostly been unemployed for some time. They all have the same story, nothing out there, they haven't had any call backs, unemployed for months. It is stressful knowing I hold someones fate in my hands . It is just sad. I didn't realize it was that bad out there. I have had corporate men come in, willing to make copies just to supporte ...

I have been swamped at work! My official title is business manager. I do am the acountant, HR and deal with business issues, insurance claims business licenses etc... One of my employees sent me an e-mail the other day. I thought it odd as she is not someone that would send me an email. I looked at the title before I opened it and it was titled "Proud to be white" I almost fell off my chair! I read it and it was horrible. Definately not something that belongs in a work environment. I don't ...

I posted this on the main board, but wanted to add it in here also...

DS is in baseball this year and it is a lot more competitive than last year. He needs to learn to pay attention and be with his team. Unfortunately, he doesn't get a chance to do this as his dad is up his a$$ the whole game. X is like a puupy dog and goes wherever DS goes. If DS is in the dugout, X stands right behind him talking to him, distracting him. If he is standing in the natters box, X stands right on the ...

I don't know what I am actually. I have been ignoring calls from P for about 3 weeks now. We have been split up for over a year, he keeps trying to rope me back in yet doesn't want to "be" with me. I think it is a matter of he doesn't want me but he wants to know what is going on in my life and stay in it just enough for me to still want him. Make sense?
Anyway, he called tonight asking for something he let me borrow 3 months ago for my bathroom renovation. He kept saying how he ...