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by , 03-07-2010 at 05:29 PM (636 Views)
I wish my family and friends would realize:

I do not intentionally have migraines to ruin their plans, mess with their lives, or to inconvience them.

There is only so much I can do to fight them (the headaches) sometimes you just have to accept your life as is and make the best of it.

I have seen 7 doctors (not including any of the doctors I've seen in a crisis), taken countless medications, had many tests, tried different home remedies. I'm tired and I'm done. Deal with it. Quality of life to me is not doctor chasing and expermenting with treatments and meds that may or may not make me better or worse. Let me make the best of my good days. Accept my bad days.

It is what is...this is me. This is my new normal. You can take me or you can leave me.
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  1. 3boys2luv's Avatar
    I think you're great just the way you are.
  2. Lois's Avatar
    HUGS! I get it....at some point it all becomes not worth it, frustrating and disappointing and wasting time and energy. Enjoy those good days.
  3. Polly wog's Avatar
    We love you just as you are.

    massive understanding hugs
  4. MaggieM's Avatar
    I get migraines too. Hugs, and I understand.
  5. CdnMom's Avatar
    I totally understand and get you. It's accept me as I am good and bad. People only seem to acknowledge the migraines, not the migraine free time that we make the most of. So sorry
  6. Crystal's Avatar
  7. clhmom's Avatar
    I also get horrible migraines so I know where you are coming from. Many hugs
  8. jow's Avatar
    {{{{{{{{{{{{{Shel, Love you girl.}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
  9. BC-NanceLee's Avatar
    I think that is a GREAT attitude and who knows, over time might even help. Some drugs cause rebound headaches, not to mention the stress of all the visits, time away from home, and expense.

    ((hugs))
  10. AMF's Avatar
    I'll take you, just as you are.
    I have had 'bouts' of migraines but nothing like what you have endured. I am sorry you are going through this, really really sorry. they are life robbing...I hope someday there is a cure. *hugs and prayers for you*
  11. Rudi's Avatar
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