Frustrated

hannahsmama · 11-05-2007, 04:23 PM

I got three positive opks yesterday and - today...
Im on CD12 and have had a lot of cramping and pains today, like AF was coming but worse pains.....we BD yesterday and I had EWCM, I had a lil today as well, but No BD...am I screwed? Im frustrated!!!! I feel its such a waste of a cycle since I didnt get in a BD!

Did I O already or what???

Jennie6308 · 11-05-2007, 05:09 PM

I share your frustration! I have no idea if I O'd either... FF says I did, but TCOYF says I didnt ....

Cassie R. · 11-06-2007, 08:15 AM

If I followed your description correctly, it sounds like you had BMS on the day before you actually O'd, but not on the day that you most likely O'd. Since sperm can live for a couple of days, I don't think it is a wasted cycle at all -- there's a good chance that you had some of the little guys right up there waiting for the egg

. Obviously it is even better to have BMS on the day before and the day of, but I still think there is some chance of ++++++++

hannahsmama · 11-06-2007, 11:21 AM

thanks I hope so! Cd11 I had +opk Cd12-opk and today cd13....we shall see....i had a lot of cramping and stuff yesterday....we bd on cd11 and cd13 so we shall see....

Jennie6308 · 11-06-2007, 01:12 PM

Shannon- keep in mind too that you get a + OPK before you O- usually 24-36 hours... So you might of Od on CD 13 ... which means BOTH bds were perfectly timed!

::sticky vibes::

hannahsmama · 11-06-2007, 06:38 PM

ok good! Yeah thats tru....I just get to reading and all confused! Thanks!!

11-05-2007, 04:23 PM	#1 (permalink)
hannahsmama 1000-4999 post queen of hearts Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: AZ Posts: 1,575 Blog Entries: 7	Frustrated I got three positive opks yesterday and - today... Im on CD12 and have had a lot of cramping and pains today, like AF was coming but worse pains.....we BD yesterday and I had EWCM, I had a lil today as well, but No BD...am I screwed? Im frustrated!!!! I feel its such a waste of a cycle since I didnt get in a BD! Did I O already or what??? __________________ Me-27yr DH-32yr Hannah Bella 4/21/06 Gavin Andrew 1/21/2009 3 M/C1 Chem1 DNC- "Where theres passion, theres pictures" I <3 Photography! Come drop us a line at www.thebiancamanobuzz.blogspot.com

11-06-2007, 08:15 AM	#3 (permalink)
Cassie R. 1000-4999 post queen of hearts Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Midwest Posts: 2,609	If I followed your description correctly, it sounds like you had BMS on the day before you actually O'd, but not on the day that you most likely O'd. Since sperm can live for a couple of days, I don't think it is a wasted cycle at all -- there's a good chance that you had some of the little guys right up there waiting for the egg . Obviously it is even better to have BMS on the day before and the day of, but I still think there is some chance of ++++++++ __________________ Cassie -- 7; -- 4 '99

11-06-2007, 11:21 AM	#4 (permalink)
hannahsmama 1000-4999 post queen of hearts Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: AZ Posts: 1,575 Blog Entries: 7	thanks I hope so! Cd11 I had +opk Cd12-opk and today cd13....we shall see....i had a lot of cramping and stuff yesterday....we bd on cd11 and cd13 so we shall see.... __________________ Me-27yr DH-32yr Hannah Bella 4/21/06 Gavin Andrew 1/21/2009 3 M/C1 Chem1 DNC- "Where theres passion, theres pictures" I <3 Photography! Come drop us a line at www.thebiancamanobuzz.blogspot.com

11-06-2007, 06:38 PM	#6 (permalink)
hannahsmama 1000-4999 post queen of hearts Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: AZ Posts: 1,575 Blog Entries: 7	ok good! Yeah thats tru....I just get to reading and all confused! Thanks!! __________________ Me-27yr DH-32yr Hannah Bella 4/21/06 Gavin Andrew 1/21/2009 3 M/C1 Chem1 DNC- "Where theres passion, theres pictures" I <3 Photography! Come drop us a line at www.thebiancamanobuzz.blogspot.com

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11-05-2007, 05:09 PM	#2 (permalink)
Jennie6308 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: NH Posts: 314	I share your frustration! I have no idea if I O'd either... FF says I did, but TCOYF says I didnt ....

11-06-2007, 01:12 PM	#5 (permalink)
Jennie6308 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: NH Posts: 314	Shannon- keep in mind too that you get a + OPK before you O- usually 24-36 hours... So you might of Od on CD 13 ... which means BOTH bds were perfectly timed! ::sticky vibes::