Have you heard this song?

[Cibele]

Hi girls , I heard this song the other day on the radio and I had to get the CD. I am not a big fan of country music but this one is so beautiful .... I hope you enjoy it ... it is about IF

So Hard
By Dixie Chicks

Back when we started we didn’t know how hard it was
Living on nothing but what the wind would bring to us
Now we’ve got something I can imagine fighting for
So why is fighting all that we’re good at anymore?

And sometimes I don’t have the energy to prove everybody wrong
And try my best to be strong
But you know it’s so hard
it’s so hard…

It’s so hard when it does not come easy
It’s so hard when it does not come fast
It’s so hard when it does not come easy
It’s so hard …

It felt like a given
something a woman in born to do
A natural ambition
See a reflection of me on you

And I’d feel so guilty
If that was a gift and could not give
And could you be happy if life was not like we pictured it?

And sometimes I just want to wait it out
To prove everybody wrong
And I need your help to move on
‘Cause you know it’s so hard
It’s so hard…

It’s so hard when it does not come easy
It’s so hard when it does not come fast
It’s so hard when it does not come easy
It’s so hard …

I can live for the moment
When all these clouds open up for me to see
And show me a vision
Of how it is you and me swinging peacefully

Last night you told me that you can’t remember how to be free
And it is so hard…

It’s so hard when it does not come easy
It’s so hard when it does not come fast
It’s so hard when it does not come easy
It’s so hard …

[sassymermaid]

I'm not a country fan whatsoever (except for good ol' Willie Nelson and friends LOL), but I actually really got hooked on the other 2 Dixie Chick cds. I just saw the new one the other night in the store and decided to give it a try and I bought it. I listened to it the other night and really liked it, but didn't really pay attention to the songs. Now, I have to go back and listen to that one....thanks for the heads up!!!

[Paeta]

Oh wow....simple lyrics but so true!

[BC-Maura]

Thank you... I really want to hear the new CD!

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Maura

[Cibele]

I love the song "not ready to make nice" too , but this one "so hard" is very special, simple lyrics and they say a lot. I read that the 2 sister had IF problems and now they have their IVF's babies. I was Glad to see they did not forget all they went through even after they had their dream babies... so people just forget it all, don't they???

[BC-Maura]

Hi Cibele: Yes, I heard the same thing about the two sisters having IF ... as for forgetting, I think most people who go through IF don't ever really forget, even if it might seem like they do. I know that I STILL feel pangs when I hear someone I know is pg, even though we overcame IF and our family is complete. I still remember how devastated I was when I had my losses and how desperate I was when I then couldn't conceive at all. That's why a site like this is so great... it keeps us IF-ers connected!

Best to all+++++++++++++++
Maura