Need a hug.... ( friends preg ment)

Ferret Mommy · 11-07-2005, 09:15 PM

I just got an e-mail that my friend needs help naming her baby girl that is on the way. This is her 3rd BTW.

I bet she was not even trying and ooppps. This really sucks. I have already blocked her... I can not keep reading her e-mails about her and her growing family.

Then we are having a problem with our house loan....we will prob not get our keys this weekend... and that is O time. I will have to drive 1.5 hours to and from work untill we have keys. That will end up being 3 hours a day in the car on the freeway in Los Angeles.

Sigh. I so wish I did not take clomid this month. Looks like a bust already.

Thanks for letting me vent. Hugs everyone.

jules75 · 11-08-2005, 12:03 AM

I am so sorry Kat!!!! ((((HUGS)))) to you!!! I can understand how frustrated you must be but try and hang in there-maybe it'll all work out-I hope so!!! I wish you the best w/your house and this cycle. Chin up girl!! Take care!!

Julie

She67 · 11-08-2005, 05:12 AM

Hugs to you, and work with DH on the BMS, it might be some great stress relief also!

Sheila

Daviso · 11-08-2005, 07:49 AM

Hope everything works out for you this cycle and with your house. DH and I just went through buying a house 2 months ago, and I know how stressful it can be -- then add a dose of IF to the mix... Ugh. Keep your chin up! I know it's hard dealing with a friend/family member's pregnancy -- especially when it seems to happen so quickly for everyone else around you! Your day will come -- keep the faith!

**BC-Maura** · 11-08-2005, 08:19 AM

{{{HUGS}}} Kat... I hope the house works out and you can BMS in comfort... as for that friend of yours, I'm glad you're protecting yourself ... you really need to when going through ttc ... if she's a good friend she'll understand your distancing ... and if she doesn't understand, maybe she's not such a good friend after all!

{{{HUGS}}}
++++++++++++++++++++++Good luck!
Maura

Daviso · 11-08-2005, 08:20 AM

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Originally Posted by BC-Maura

{{{HUGS}}} Kat... I hope the house works out and you can BMS in comfort... as for that friend of yours, I'm glad you're protecting yourself ... you really need to when going through ttc ... if she's a good friend she'll understand your distancing ... and if she doesn't understand, maybe she's not such a good friend after all!

{{{HUGS}}}
++++++++++++++++++++++Good luck!
Maura

Ditto and Amen!

Ferret Mommy · 11-08-2005, 08:32 PM

Thanks Ladies.... With us moving to Georgia, I havent seen my friend, we just chat online these days and the e-mail was to all her family... I was just included. I wish Ihad a better girl name for a ferret... or I would suggest my ferrets name.... but KLPLTZM is not one to name a child!! hehehe!

I am trying to stay positive..... thank you everyone! HUGS!

Birdbrain2 · 11-09-2005, 05:21 AM

Just wANTING TO SAY GOOD LUCK SWEETIE!!
I understand hearing about pregnant friends.....it very disturbing!!! I watched BOTH of my SIL's get pregnant within the first 6 months of my ttc....neither one were really "trying" and neither one experienced any complications (not that its what i wanted but you know what i mean) It VERY frusterated!! I think our day is coming soon!! Just keep praying!!!!!

Karen

**BC-Maura** · 11-09-2005, 06:13 AM

Kat: I didn't know you were moving to Georgia... didn't you just move to California? Maybe I'm having a senior moment? And how do you pronounce your ferret's name?!

++++++++++++++++best

Maura

Ferret Mommy · 11-09-2005, 12:01 PM

I know, kinda confusing!! We moved to Georgia 2 years ago and just moved back to Cali... but I havent really seen any friends due to being in LA. Home town is about 4 hours away.

KLPLTZM - Kul- plit- sum... named after Mtzlplk... a comic book villan I believe from Superman that to make him dissapear he had to say his name backwards... klpltzm! We just changed around the z and t to make it easier on us! She is usually called little girl... but she is not little anymore!! She is bigger than one of my males!! lol!!

Oh, and we still do not have our loan yet for the house. So now I will have to comute next week and that is the big O week....Sigh....I will be very lucky if I even see Dh that week. Another big sigh....

11-07-2005, 09:15 PM	#1 (permalink)
Ferret Mommy 10000-15000 post ace of hearts Join Date: May 2005 Location: In My Place Posts: 10,907 Blog Entries: 42	Need a hug.... ( friends preg ment) I just got an e-mail that my friend needs help naming her baby girl that is on the way. This is her 3rd BTW. I bet she was not even trying and ooppps. This really sucks. I have already blocked her... I can not keep reading her e-mails about her and her growing family. Then we are having a problem with our house loan....we will prob not get our keys this weekend... and that is O time. I will have to drive 1.5 hours to and from work untill we have keys. That will end up being 3 hours a day in the car on the freeway in Los Angeles. Sigh. I so wish I did not take clomid this month. Looks like a bust already. Thanks for letting me vent. Hugs everyone.

11-08-2005, 05:12 AM	#3 (permalink)
She67 1000-4999 post queen of hearts Join Date: Apr 2002 Location: Indianapolis, IN Posts: 1,462	Hugs to you, and work with DH on the BMS, it might be some great stress relief also! Sheila __________________ Sheila DX PCOS Dh - 41 me - 41 Kody 17 years old Ciera - 6 years old Olivia Shae - b/July 7th - d/July 8th 2004

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11-08-2005, 12:03 AM	#2 (permalink)
jules75 Registered User Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: oregon Posts: 1,546	I am so sorry Kat!!!! ((((HUGS)))) to you!!! I can understand how frustrated you must be but try and hang in there-maybe it'll all work out-I hope so!!! I wish you the best w/your house and this cycle. Chin up girl!! Take care!! Julie

11-08-2005, 07:49 AM	#4 (permalink)
Daviso 5000-9999 post king of hearts Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Florida Posts: 5,972 Blog Entries: 93	Hope everything works out for you this cycle and with your house. DH and I just went through buying a house 2 months ago, and I know how stressful it can be -- then add a dose of IF to the mix... Ugh. Keep your chin up! I know it's hard dealing with a friend/family member's pregnancy -- especially when it seems to happen so quickly for everyone else around you! Your day will come -- keep the faith!

11-08-2005, 08:19 AM	#5 (permalink)
BC-Maura Board Coordinator Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 12,946	{{{HUGS}}} Kat... I hope the house works out and you can BMS in comfort... as for that friend of yours, I'm glad you're protecting yourself ... you really need to when going through ttc ... if she's a good friend she'll understand your distancing ... and if she doesn't understand, maybe she's not such a good friend after all! {{{HUGS}}} ++++++++++++++++++++++Good luck! Maura

11-08-2005, 08:32 PM	#7 (permalink)
Ferret Mommy 10000-15000 post ace of hearts Join Date: May 2005 Location: In My Place Posts: 10,907 Blog Entries: 42	Thanks Ladies.... With us moving to Georgia, I havent seen my friend, we just chat online these days and the e-mail was to all her family... I was just included. I wish Ihad a better girl name for a ferret... or I would suggest my ferrets name.... but KLPLTZM is not one to name a child!! hehehe! I am trying to stay positive..... thank you everyone! HUGS!

11-09-2005, 05:21 AM	#8 (permalink)
Birdbrain2 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Virginia Posts: 171	Just wANTING TO SAY GOOD LUCK SWEETIE!! I understand hearing about pregnant friends.....it very disturbing!!! I watched BOTH of my SIL's get pregnant within the first 6 months of my ttc....neither one were really "trying" and neither one experienced any complications (not that its what i wanted but you know what i mean) It VERY frusterated!! I think our day is coming soon!! Just keep praying!!!!! Karen

11-09-2005, 06:13 AM	#9 (permalink)
BC-Maura Board Coordinator Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 12,946	Kat: I didn't know you were moving to Georgia... didn't you just move to California? Maybe I'm having a senior moment? And how do you pronounce your ferret's name?! ++++++++++++++++best Maura

11-09-2005, 12:01 PM	#10 (permalink)
Ferret Mommy 10000-15000 post ace of hearts Join Date: May 2005 Location: In My Place Posts: 10,907 Blog Entries: 42	I know, kinda confusing!! We moved to Georgia 2 years ago and just moved back to Cali... but I havent really seen any friends due to being in LA. Home town is about 4 hours away. KLPLTZM - Kul- plit- sum... named after Mtzlplk... a comic book villan I believe from Superman that to make him dissapear he had to say his name backwards... klpltzm! We just changed around the z and t to make it easier on us! She is usually called little girl... but she is not little anymore!! She is bigger than one of my males!! lol!! Oh, and we still do not have our loan yet for the house. So now I will have to comute next week and that is the big O week....Sigh....I will be very lucky if I even see Dh that week. Another big sigh....