BFN at 18DPO, No AF!!

Ferret Mommy · 10-30-2005, 07:40 PM

Ok my LP seems to have been longer this month when it is usually 12-13 days. I am on CD35, about 18DPO with a BFN. I really do not know what to think or do. I would rather start all over again and get going than wait and wait for AF. I actually Od on CD 17ish, that was earlier and better than CD20, and having an LP longer than 14 to me is better than it at 12 or 13. I have had NO breakthough this month. I do not have any cramping, that was last week. BBS are alittle sore, but they hurt worse last week.

Could the HSG really messed up my cycle? I really do not know. Any thoughts?

HUGS! Kat

**BC-Maura** · 10-31-2005, 05:44 AM

Kat: What HPTs are you using.... maybe try another brand? Or get a beta? How frustrating! With such a long LP, you should be either getting AF or getting a ++HPT, I would think!

Good luck and keep us posted+++++++++++
Maura

Trinity · 10-31-2005, 06:39 AM

How aggravating!

Is it possible you could have O'd later than you thought? I'm sending some positive thoughts your way.

Ferret Mommy · 10-31-2005, 11:26 AM

No, I did not O later ...My FM and they way I felt tells me I Od when I think I did. I get really sick the day of O...come to find out for 3 cycles now... thanks to the clomid. I have to use the cheap HPT because I promised DH that I would not spend money on them DUE to begging for the fertility monitor and having to buy sticks for those (50 for about 30) Also, with us buying a house, I promised. Since I promised, I have to keep it. We are really honest with all this TTC stuff and I will not ruin that!!

So, with my work schedule, I can't see the DR anyways... so I will wait it out. Sigh.
Felt somthing this morning... so maybe AF kicking in soon?? Will keep ya posted!

jules75 · 10-31-2005, 02:08 PM

Good Luck Kat!!! I know you must be frustrated!! Keep us posted-we are all wondering about you!! Take care.

Julie

burtneysmom · 10-31-2005, 05:02 PM

Hope something happens for you soon. And I have read that instead of the typical 18 dpo and no af meaning preg, that there is a 99% chance that if you make to 21dpo with no af that you are indeed pregnant. See what happens in the next 3 days. I've gone 19dpo before starting af, I know how frustrating this can be. It just plain sucks! Keeping my fingers crossed for you! ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

Ferret Mommy · 11-01-2005, 12:24 AM

OKIES.....CD1 here. Man the cramping came like a witch. Thats ok though, least I had a longer LP that was a good thing. Crossing fingers that my body is trying to get ready for something here soon!!

Thanks for the well wishes!! Hugs!!

**BC-Maura** · 11-01-2005, 06:10 AM

Oh, Kat, I'm so sorry

! I hope this cycle treats you better....

++++++++++++++++++++++
Maura

Kristina921 · 11-01-2005, 08:14 AM

I'm sorry Kat! I guess we'll be cycle buddies again...I'm still waiting for my official CD1.....I've been spotting for 4 days! How annoying is that...I just want to start a new cycle!
Well, Here's to a new cycle!

mrsb514 · 11-01-2005, 09:58 AM

Sorry to hear!!! I took clomid days 1-4 or whatever it was but on the first day.....100mg.....

Good luck Kat!!!!

10-30-2005, 07:40 PM	#1 (permalink)
Ferret Mommy 10000-15000 post ace of hearts Join Date: May 2005 Location: In My Place Posts: 10,907 Blog Entries: 42	BFN at 18DPO, No AF!! Ok my LP seems to have been longer this month when it is usually 12-13 days. I am on CD35, about 18DPO with a BFN. I really do not know what to think or do. I would rather start all over again and get going than wait and wait for AF. I actually Od on CD 17ish, that was earlier and better than CD20, and having an LP longer than 14 to me is better than it at 12 or 13. I have had NO breakthough this month. I do not have any cramping, that was last week. BBS are alittle sore, but they hurt worse last week. Could the HSG really messed up my cycle? I really do not know. Any thoughts? HUGS! Kat

10-31-2005, 05:02 PM	#6 (permalink)
burtneysmom 1000-4999 post queen of hearts Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Northern Indiana Posts: 2,794	Hope something happens for you soon. And I have read that instead of the typical 18 dpo and no af meaning preg, that there is a 99% chance that if you make to 21dpo with no af that you are indeed pregnant. See what happens in the next 3 days. I've gone 19dpo before starting af, I know how frustrating this can be. It just plain sucks! Keeping my fingers crossed for you! ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ __________________ Shavon DH Adam Mommy to my four Beautiful Princesses! - Brittany Kay 9 years -Camille Rose 6 years -Joselyn Faith (Baby Josie) 6/28/06 -Lillyanne Grace 3/21/08 - Adrian lost 8/05 (at 12 wks along) On my journey to lose 105 pounds! 21 lost, 84 to go!

11-01-2005, 06:10 AM	#8 (permalink)
BC-Maura Board Coordinator Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 12,945	Oh, Kat, I'm so sorry! I hope this cycle treats you better.... ++++++++++++++++++++++ Maura

11-01-2005, 08:14 AM	#9 (permalink)
Kristina921 Registered User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Charlotte, NC Posts: 513	I'm sorry Kat! I guess we'll be cycle buddies again...I'm still waiting for my official CD1.....I've been spotting for 4 days! How annoying is that...I just want to start a new cycle! Well, Here's to a new cycle! __________________ Me - 28 , DH - 30 ttc # 1 , 4 Angels in Heaven confirmed PCOS 07/04 http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/13980e

11-01-2005, 09:58 AM	#10 (permalink)
mrsb514 Registered User Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: AZ Posts: 1,130	AF came? Sorry to hear!!! I took clomid days 1-4 or whatever it was but on the first day.....100mg..... Good luck Kat!!!!

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10-31-2005, 05:44 AM	#2 (permalink)
BC-Maura Board Coordinator Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 12,945	Kat: What HPTs are you using.... maybe try another brand? Or get a beta? How frustrating! With such a long LP, you should be either getting AF or getting a ++HPT, I would think! Good luck and keep us posted+++++++++++ Maura

10-31-2005, 06:39 AM	#3 (permalink)
Trinity Registered User Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 3,705	How aggravating! Is it possible you could have O'd later than you thought? I'm sending some positive thoughts your way.

10-31-2005, 11:26 AM	#4 (permalink)
Ferret Mommy 10000-15000 post ace of hearts Join Date: May 2005 Location: In My Place Posts: 10,907 Blog Entries: 42	No, I did not O later ...My FM and they way I felt tells me I Od when I think I did. I get really sick the day of O...come to find out for 3 cycles now... thanks to the clomid. I have to use the cheap HPT because I promised DH that I would not spend money on them DUE to begging for the fertility monitor and having to buy sticks for those (50 for about 30) Also, with us buying a house, I promised. Since I promised, I have to keep it. We are really honest with all this TTC stuff and I will not ruin that!! So, with my work schedule, I can't see the DR anyways... so I will wait it out. Sigh. Felt somthing this morning... so maybe AF kicking in soon?? Will keep ya posted!

10-31-2005, 02:08 PM	#5 (permalink)
jules75 Registered User Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: oregon Posts: 1,546	Good Luck Kat!!! I know you must be frustrated!! Keep us posted-we are all wondering about you!! Take care. Julie

11-01-2005, 12:24 AM	#7 (permalink)
Ferret Mommy 10000-15000 post ace of hearts Join Date: May 2005 Location: In My Place Posts: 10,907 Blog Entries: 42	OKIES.....CD1 here. Man the cramping came like a witch. Thats ok though, least I had a longer LP that was a good thing. Crossing fingers that my body is trying to get ready for something here soon!! Thanks for the well wishes!! Hugs!!

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