Breaking News too sister about pregnancy.....after her loss 3yrs ago

[mrsb514]

I know that my sis will be happy for me but she is still sensitive to the whole issue.....Im close to her and I dont want to keep it from her....what should I do?????

[Ferret Mommy]

Shannon,
I would honestly tell her in person. I would make sure that she understands that this may be hard for her, but that you really wanted to tell her. Just be honest and sensitibe to the issue and understand that if she is not happy right away, it is because of her own loss. It has been 3 years and everyone heals differently.... so trust your heart and make her apart of your happiness. Sorry for her hurt, but maybe she will make it help her. Also, please know that if she is happy, there may be another feeling of jealousy... wich I know... My sis has had 2 babies (6 years and 8 months old) and as happy as I am... I am also saddened.

I believe you are not one to boast.... I am sure you will handle telling her in the way that is needed. I wish you luck. I pray that all goes well between you two. I am not so close to my younger sister... but I do love her and support her. If you would like, I would like to know how it goes. Hugs! Kat

[mrsb514]

I called her bc she lives in TX and Im in AZ.....and it went REALLY good. She was excited for us and Icould truly tell in her voice. I told her how I did hesitate to tell her bc I was sensitive to her loses and I wanted her to be okay with knowing. She was and it was very cool!!!

Thanks for your support!
How are you doing? What mg of the clo are you on this month! Ill send you baby dust......*******......******

Good luck and stay in touch!!! Take it at night the effects arent as bad!!!

[Ferret Mommy]

Hey! Glad it went well. I can do the 50 or the 100mg.. days 5-9. I still have a few days to think it over. I have what I need for the 100, but seeing if I can get any advice here on the boards. Yes, I will take it at night!! I was not sure about anymore side affects, that is why md said I can do 50 if I wish... but do I want to chance the 50?? Much baby dust needed... hehehe.... Take care!!!

[BC-DKNY]

i think that was extremely kind and considerate of you to make your sisters needs your priority.

[mrsb514]

Thanks. I really care about others feelings and try to myself in their shoes. Things worked out really weel and when I woke up this am my sister sent me a really cute and sweet e card....made me cry! Thanks for support with advice.

[stacy-ann]

I am so happy it went well with your sis.