Beta Results

aimee02 · 06-17-2005, 04:00 PM

Well, it was negative

I hate this IF stuff. I feel like such a failure. DH was real sweet about it. Told me that it will be ok and we will just try again. I know this was just our first try and the doctor said usually within three. So, I know it isn't over yet. I try to stay positive each cycle but I am so tired of being disappointed. Why can't I just be normal?????

Aimee

jenbethk · 06-17-2005, 04:42 PM

I'm so sorry, Aimee! I just got a BFN on Wed. and I know how awful it feels!!! I'm glad your DH is so supportive and that you'll try again!! I'm dusting myself off and will start right away as well!

I also wish I could be "normal"!!! This IF stuff truly sucks!!!!
Hang in there!
Jen

aimee02 · 06-17-2005, 04:50 PM

I am so glad I have you ladies to talk to about this. Normal people just can't understand no matter how much they try. It is the worst feeling in the world.
Aimee

**BC-DKNY** · 06-17-2005, 08:16 PM

Aimee...i'm so sorry sweetie. i truly feel your pain. let your dh pamper you a little till you feel better. i'm sure he's disappointed as well, but it's not the same. and you are NOT a failure. someone's just really making you work for that pot at the end of the rainbow

zizzie · 06-18-2005, 04:34 AM

Aimee, I am so sorry...we have to keep going there will be a light at the end of the tunnel.

Zizzie

Little fluff · 06-18-2005, 05:46 AM

Hi Aimee

Sorry to hear your news. Wishing you heaps of luck with your next cycle. Give yourself a treat or do something nice for yourself.

You like the rest of is are not a failure at all. You like the rest of us are a beautiful deserving woman. Who knows why any of us are being tested in this cruel unfair way, all we can do is stay focused that infertility is like all illnesses and no fault of the person inflicted with it.

Give yourself and your DH a hug. You both deserve it.

Debbie

JulieB2 · 06-18-2005, 05:47 AM

I'm so very sorry for your negative!! GAH i hate them!!!! I hate IF for all of us.... Feel better soon

stacy-ann · 06-18-2005, 12:26 PM

Oh Aimee

I am so sorry hon'. I know how disappointed this BFN can make us feel but I do love that you have the support of your dh during the time we need them most. Keep thinking ++++++++++++ hon and I know you will get that BFP soon.

((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))

dutchgirl · 06-20-2005, 03:53 AM

I'm sorry Aimee - IF is definitely not something I would wish on anyone. Hang in there, though, you will have your miracle

**BC-Maura** · 06-20-2005, 06:10 AM

Aimee: I'm sorry about the negative

! I hope this next cycle treats you better....

Good luck and keep us posted++++++++
Maura

06-17-2005, 04:00 PM	#1 (permalink)
aimee02 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Texas Posts: 493	Beta Results Well, it was negative I hate this IF stuff. I feel like such a failure. DH was real sweet about it. Told me that it will be ok and we will just try again. I know this was just our first try and the doctor said usually within three. So, I know it isn't over yet. I try to stay positive each cycle but I am so tired of being disappointed. Why can't I just be normal????? Aimee __________________ 2 m/c, 08/19-BFP!! Beta 524 Progesterone 76 08/22-Beta 1606, 08/23-U/S - Looks as it should! , 08/29-Beta 20,651, 08/31-U/S Saw & heard the , little bean measuring right on schedule, 09/16-U/S looks perfect, 169bpm, 10/03-11 Wk U/S, beautiful baby moving all around, 170bpm. EDD: 04/24/06

06-17-2005, 04:42 PM	#2 (permalink)
jenbethk Registered User Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: New York Posts: 2,660	I'm so sorry, Aimee! I just got a BFN on Wed. and I know how awful it feels!!! I'm glad your DH is so supportive and that you'll try again!! I'm dusting myself off and will start right away as well! I also wish I could be "normal"!!! This IF stuff truly sucks!!!! Hang in there! Jen __________________ Me-35, DH-42, TTC #1 - 25 mnths, 3 IUI (2 Clomid, 1 Reprnx) - BFN IVF #1 - m/c twins 7.5 wks (9/04) - Elev. Homocysteine/Hetero MTHFR IVF #2 - BFN (12/04) FET #1 - m/c (3/05) - Blighted Ovum , FET #2 - BFN (6/05), IVF #3 - Conv to IUI (7/05) - BFN, IVF #4 - Born 31w4d on April 9, 2006 Carly Allison and Reese Madison (I'm truly in love!!!)

06-17-2005, 04:50 PM	#3 (permalink)
aimee02 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Texas Posts: 493	I am so glad I have you ladies to talk to about this. Normal people just can't understand no matter how much they try. It is the worst feeling in the world. Aimee __________________ 2 m/c, 08/19-BFP!! Beta 524 Progesterone 76 08/22-Beta 1606, 08/23-U/S - Looks as it should! , 08/29-Beta 20,651, 08/31-U/S Saw & heard the , little bean measuring right on schedule, 09/16-U/S looks perfect, 169bpm, 10/03-11 Wk U/S, beautiful baby moving all around, 170bpm. EDD: 04/24/06

06-18-2005, 05:47 AM	#7 (permalink)
JulieB2 1000-4999 post queen of hearts Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Ohio Posts: 1,607 Blog Entries: 10	I'm so very sorry for your negative!! GAH i hate them!!!! I hate IF for all of us.... Feel better soon __________________ Julie My one and only beautiful dd

06-18-2005, 12:26 PM	#8 (permalink)
stacy-ann 1000-4999 post queen of hearts Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Woodbridge, NJ Posts: 4,934	Oh Aimee I am so sorry hon'. I know how disappointed this BFN can make us feel but I do love that you have the support of your dh during the time we need them most. Keep thinking ++++++++++++ hon and I know you will get that BFP soon. ((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))) __________________ dh Troy love of my life Brandon... 12/5/99 (rest cycle baby) Sydnee.... 8/20/03 (rest cycle baby) 3 .. 1 in 97' & 2 in 02'

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06-18-2005, 04:34 AM	#5 (permalink)
zizzie 400-499 post 6 of hearts Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Europe Posts: 479	Aimee, I am so sorry...we have to keep going there will be a light at the end of the tunnel. Zizzie

06-18-2005, 05:46 AM	#6 (permalink)
Little fluff 1000-4999 post queen of hearts Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Albury NSW - Australia Posts: 1,908	Hi Aimee Sorry to hear your news. Wishing you heaps of luck with your next cycle. Give yourself a treat or do something nice for yourself. You like the rest of is are not a failure at all. You like the rest of us are a beautiful deserving woman. Who knows why any of us are being tested in this cruel unfair way, all we can do is stay focused that infertility is like all illnesses and no fault of the person inflicted with it. Give yourself and your DH a hug. You both deserve it. Debbie

06-20-2005, 03:53 AM	#9 (permalink)
dutchgirl 5000-9999 post king of hearts Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: MA Posts: 9,588 Blog Entries: 34	I'm sorry Aimee - IF is definitely not something I would wish on anyone. Hang in there, though, you will have your miracle

06-20-2005, 06:10 AM	#10 (permalink)
BC-Maura Board Coordinator Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 12,945	Aimee: I'm sorry about the negative! I hope this next cycle treats you better.... Good luck and keep us posted++++++++ Maura

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