Bad News

mmehegartner · 02-17-2005, 08:45 AM

I took an hpt this morning (first response) and received another-. I am 12dpiui and am scheduled to go into the Dr. tomorrow am for my blood draw. I honestly don't know if it is even worth it!! I cried for 1/2 an hour this morning, just being sick of the dissapointment each time. We have been trying for over 3 years now, and it never seems to get easier.

I honestly thougth that I had a chance this time around. My temps have remained high (other than Saturday) and I still have not gotten my period. So it was hard to see that - this am.

Any thoughts??

**BC-DKNY** · 02-17-2005, 11:03 AM

i'm so sorry for the disappointment...many of us here truly understand your pain.

i would still like to keep you just a little hopeful tho. 12 DPIUI is still early. implantation can take up to 12 days in which case you wouldn't have been able to pick up any hcg yet. i tested at 1 day late for AF (15 dpo) with my dd and got a blatant neg. not even a hint of a line. i tested 5 days later and got an immediate ++. as long as AF hasn't showed yet, you still have hope.

i had also about lost all hope when i hit the 3 year mark while TTC my ds. i had stopped taking hpt's about 7-8 mos earlier b/c i couldn't stand the disappontment anymore. i felt it was (somewhat) less painful to just have AF show up than to see that horrible neg hpt staring back at me...KWIM?

i know it's such a heart wrenching battle, but it will happen for you. don't lose hope.

**BC-Maura** · 02-17-2005, 11:06 AM

I feel for you too... but Dina is right... it really is too soon to give up hope! I would wait another 2 days before testing again to give your body more time to do what it's doing... and I hope that what it's doing is building up HcG

.

Good luck and keep us posted

+++++++
Maura

dutchgirl · 02-17-2005, 07:38 PM

I agree with the experts. I had a negative aroudn 14dpo and a ++ two days later. Hang in there. If AF is not here it is not over!

Lisa

stacy-ann · 02-18-2005, 09:18 AM

I am sorry about the - hpt but as long as AF is not in sight I would still have hope. I would wait another 2 days and test again. Sometimes the hcg is not high enough for the hpt to pick it up.

Praying for a +++++++++outcome.
Good luck!!!

02-17-2005, 08:45 AM	#1 (permalink)
mmehegartner Registered User Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: New York Posts: 152	Bad News I took an hpt this morning (first response) and received another-. I am 12dpiui and am scheduled to go into the Dr. tomorrow am for my blood draw. I honestly don't know if it is even worth it!! I cried for 1/2 an hour this morning, just being sick of the dissapointment each time. We have been trying for over 3 years now, and it never seems to get easier. I honestly thougth that I had a chance this time around. My temps have remained high (other than Saturday) and I still have not gotten my period. So it was hard to see that - this am. Any thoughts??

02-17-2005, 11:06 AM	#3 (permalink)
BC-Maura Board Coordinator Join Date: Jan 2002 Posts: 12,874	I feel for you too... but Dina is right... it really is too soon to give up hope! I would wait another 2 days before testing again to give your body more time to do what it's doing... and I hope that what it's doing is building up HcG. Good luck and keep us posted+++++++ Maura

02-18-2005, 09:18 AM	#5 (permalink)
stacy-ann 1000-4999 post queen of hearts Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Woodbridge, NJ Posts: 4,934	I am sorry about the - hpt but as long as AF is not in sight I would still have hope. I would wait another 2 days and test again. Sometimes the hcg is not high enough for the hpt to pick it up. Praying for a +++++++++outcome. Good luck!!! __________________ dh Troy love of my life Brandon... 12/5/99 (rest cycle baby) Sydnee.... 8/20/03 (rest cycle baby) 3 .. 1 in 97' & 2 in 02'

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02-17-2005, 07:38 PM	#4 (permalink)
dutchgirl 5000-9999 post king of hearts Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: MA Posts: 9,544 Blog Entries: 34	I agree with the experts. I had a negative aroudn 14dpo and a ++ two days later. Hang in there. If AF is not here it is not over! Lisa